I've been in the kink world for a while, but not as a sub. I've learned a lot about myself, however this, being submissive, is uncharted territory for me. I have had a few experiences, some of which were memorable, however I'm still trying to find answers to questions I find myself still posing.

A little about me, I:

• have limited free time
• spend most of my time either working or perfecting my hobbies
• workout a lot and like to stay in shape
• am attracted to intelligence first and foremost
• want to properly get to know you before we jump into anything
• am 182cm, 75kg, fit, brown hair, green eyes.

What I'm looking for is someone who:

• understands that I'm new to this and is willing to take things slow
• is willing to get to know me properly
• is single and doesn't have other subs
• takes good care of her physical appearance
• doesn't have sex or kink on her mind all the time
• enjoys deep conversations and staying up late at night sometimes to discuss and argue about the dumbest things

I'm essentially looking for my counterpart, someone who is smart and that I can respect. You don't have to be more experienced than I am, but I want you to be understanding and considerate as a person. If we can't get along as people, then I can't trust you with my body.

My deal breakers:

• if you use words such as sissy, slut, slave, pet, or any kind of nickname in the talking phase. I'm not yours, so do not address me as such
• if you do not respect my time or boundaries
• if you are into pegging, feminization or sissy-related activities.
• this is gonna sound ironic, but if you're too active on reddit. i hate reddit, i really do, however this is the only place i can look for a dynamic like this without judgement.

Some more info about me:

• I like playing the piano. Music is a big passion of mine, not just playing, but listening too.
• A good singing voice can make me almost fall in love
• My favorite genre is dark comedy
• I can get scarred very easily

I'm serious about wanting mutual respect to exist before anything can start, as such, just to verify that you have read everything, please send a brief intro about yourself, and why-how you got into femdom.

Thank you for your time.