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29 [M4F] #Chicago #Anywhere - nerdy leftist looking for enm ltr
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whatshisproblem7 is a male age 29 looking for a female in Chicago, IL
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I lean towards hierarchical polyamory, and would love to find someone interested in a committed relationship that still allows each other to explore outside of that. Finding someone near me would be great, but am willing to talk to people who would be interested in relocating sometime in the future. Probably looking for a needle in a haystack, but thought I'd give it a shot.

A little about me I suppose. I'm currently going to school to get a comp sci degree, though it's very early days. I'm a huge media junkie, love talking about movies, video games, music, comics, shows, etc. Been flirting with filmmaking and game dev as hobbies, but haven't really taken the time to commit to them. I'm neuro-divergent and would like to find someone similar or who is understanding of that. Very kinky, but we can talk about that kind of thing more over DMs. Not interested in having children (even had a vasectomy) but am not opposed to being a step dad, adoptive dad, or hell even using a sperm donor. Basically just don't want an accidental pregnancy. I'm pretty far left, especially by American standards, and very passionate about politics.

What I'm looking for? Ideally would like to find someone with similar interests and values, but that's not necessarily a dealbreaker. People in a relationship can have their own hobbies and disagree on certain things. What's more important to me is someone who has the emotional intelligence to understand their own needs and desires, and be able to communicate them well. I value open-mindedness, a curiosity about the world, and a willingness to extend grace to people out of a love for humanity.

Like I said in my opening, don't know how likely it will be to find someone compatible, but thought I'd give it a shot. If you think we'd get along, hit me up.

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