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Essentially, I am slowly coming to realize that I think I fall somewhere on the asexual spectrum. I do not think about sex much (or even much at all), and though I do watch porn pretty much all the time, I am never craving sex. It is absolutely fine with me if my partner has a high sex drive, so long as that sex drive can be satisfied by getting off or being gotten off a lot, and not necessarily by having intercourse. At the same time, I don’t like the pressure of knowing that someone might be wanting sex way more than me, so I am examining the idea of trying to seek out someone either asexual, or with a low sex drive. I’m actually all about pretty much everything orbiting sex, cuddling, touching, making out, helping you get off, all the other fun stuff. I have just never been drawn to or interested in sex, and my sex drive seems to be low, too. So, someone that prefers companionship to lust is, I suppose, the best way to summarize what I am looking for. I am in northeastern PA, right on the northwestern border of NJ. I am 6’ tall, about 195 at the moment. I am one of the best cuddlers you will ever be held by, I can, at the very least, promise that. I enjoy watching TV and movies, playing video games, long conversations, some board games (Yahtzee being my favorite, taken to an extreme), late night trips to the diner, and just generally being low key and chill. I have never identified with the bar or club scene. I am not a partier. I am kind of just a boring, let’s hang out kind of person, with great friends who are generally the same. I would like someone within reasonable distance, as I would like to meet up and hang out, see if anything develops, and someone my age or younger (or a little older than me is cool, I don’t care how much younger). I can "keep up" with someone hypersexual, and I generally get that type of woman replying to my posts, I am just not interested in intercourse, that’s all.
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