Hi there everyone for those of you who like a long post this one is definitely for you. I want to say that I'm not the most attractive or fit man out there. I'm 6' 2" and 250 lbs. I've worked a lot of physically demanding jobs so I'm strong but I'm not going to sugarcoat the fact that I'm not a skinny dude. that being said I love going for crazy long hikes that are 10 miles long I'm not afraid to get up move and sweat my butt off, especially for a fun adventure. I'm 420 and psychedelic friendly although I'm not much of a drinker anymore. I enjoy video games, especially sandbox-type games and would love to have someone to play those with. I go to therapy twice a month and work hard to be some amount of an emotionally intelligent person and clear communication is important to me. I'm very kink-positive and would like a partner who is as well but I'd rather discuss that stuff personally as honestly, the sex part is not the main thing I am looking for but I will say I'm an experienced dom. When it comes to my career I'm a bit of a late bloomer and am about to finish my first degree and am also trying to buy a house.

I've been single a long time and I'm looking for someone who adds to my life truth is that I'm content with my life the way it is and I won't just add someone to my situation without being sure they are a good fit. this seems like a good time to mention I'm also a single father to a six-year-old little boy. I want to be very clear that I'm not looking for a person to come in and take over as his mom, although she is no longer in the picture, I'm his parent and take full responsibility for him myself. You are not a babysitter or a substitute mom you would be my partner and your relationship with him can be what you're comfortable with. I'm not one of these boys out here pretending to be a man I will do my part and be an equal partner both in the home and out I don't need you or anyone else to take care of me. I would like to have more kids in the future which is why if you are someone looking to be a SAHM I'm a very good fit I love being a father and my career is also important to me so I'm comfortable being the sole provider. I'm not the kind of person who's looking to be rich so if you are looking for buckets of money again you are barking up the wrong tree but if you are looking for a nice guy who will support you in your endeavors whether in the home or out and offers you foot and back rubs when you've had a long day and loves to listen to you ramble about whatever is buzzing in your head if love and support is what your after then please message me and lets see if we would be a good match. I'm also open to talking to anyone regardless of where you live I don't feel permanently tied to where I am.