Hello! I’m Ken (not my actual name, but it’s not random). Connecting with others has always been tough for me due to overthinking, self doubt, and family stress. This makes me wary of judgment and often leads to feeling isolated. I tend to avoid people because I’m anxious about how I come across, especially when meeting new people or starting a conversation. I often worry about being judged for small things or messing up expectations.

I’m still learning social skills and am a bit late to the game. Despite being introverted and dealing with challenges like depression, anxiety, and family issues, I’m focused on self improvement. I’ve recently lost weight and am working on my self image of my body, which I'm not confident about (I am confident in my looks though). I’m in my late 20s, studying technology in college, and although I haven’t had any relationships or deep conversations, I’m looking for genuine connections and someone to share experiences with.

I’m from NYC, 5'9, with a mix of American, Jamaican, and British heritage. I wear glasses, don’t have tattoos or piercings, don't smoke or do drugs, and take care of my hygiene. I enjoy gaming (especially PC and nostalgic 2D games), watching streams, anime, and manga. I appreciate all kinds of humor and believe in treating people how you want to be treated. I can be silly and petty but in a good way. I’m introverted and sometimes shy, but I’m open to new interests and experiences. I’m also open to having kids in the future.

If any of this sounds familiar or if you’re dealing with similar struggles, I’d love to connect and support each other. I’m looking for someone who understands and shares some of these experiences. I just want to make it clear that I do not have my life fully in order which includes, driving and living alone. These things will change but its a work in process. I’m not into long distance relationships right now, so let’s keep it local. Feel free to reach out if you’re interested!