Hi!! This is going to be a long post but hopefully it gives you an insight into me and what experiences we could enjoy. After all, it’s important to put the effort in up front.

TL;DR: I'm a experienced, passionate, fun (well I like to think so) and active Scottish Dom looking for a sub (maybe even one who could be a switch but more on that later) who is equally passionate in life, and yearns to give into/be challenged by a trusted partner for a rewarding kinky relationship/experience.

About me AKA "Who tf is this man?"

Physically - I'm 30, white, dark brown hair, green eyes, active/athletic (slim) (5'11/~155 lbs), non-smoker. Yes, I’m Scottish so I do have an accent but I’ll let you be the judge of whether it’s attractive?…

Personality - Now this is where I’m doing some serious self reflection here. I'm a mixture of supportive, passionate, driven, caring and just the right amount of deviancy (The right amount is a lot, in case you were wondering).

I've been described as playful, maybe even a occasionally a little arrogant, caring, communicative, honest, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, open-minded... and a lot more. I can sometimes have a firm exterior but once you get to know me and get chatting, I think my softer side flows out.

Interests - Part homebody, part social butterfly. I love nothing more than meeting friends and enjoying some time together whether that’s playing sports or chilling at the pub. Equally, I love to chill at home and just relax, take a moment to just do very little. My goal for the rest of the year is to get back to the gym so please send many motivational thoughts on this haha.

My interests vary dramatically from playing sports to keeping abreast of current affairs. I’m not a huge TV/film fan, mostly because I have no idea what to actually watch and spend most time just scrolling through Netflix, like what do you pick? I enjoy games whether that’s your classic board game or on the PC.

I love cooking, there is something so rewarding about trying new recipes and cuisines. I particularly enjoy Asian and Italian dishes, trying to make them as authentic as possible which can be challenging in Scotland.

I would love to learn a new language one day but currently I can only speak English well some might even suggest with a Scottish accent I can’t do that…

There’s no doubt more I can share but this is long enough already but hopefully we share a few interests already.

Daily life - I'm goal-oriented and push myself and others to aspire to try and do new things, take that leap. I have a career that I'm passionate about and this is as much part of my life and probably personality. For clarity, I’m not career driven at all costs but I like to succeed in my passions and this is one of them.

I think I’m pretty good at giving advice or pushing others to do things that they’ve also wanted to, I like to make it a priority to be there for others when they ask, equally I’m not going to push to be involved and sometimes you have to work it out for yourself.

Who and what I'm looking for?

I'm looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also is ready to relinquish control in the right hands, some of the time.

Someone who is ready to be challenged (whether sexually or personally) and help her succeed in everything she desires.

Whether this remains a purely online thing or develops into something more in person, I’m open to this, I’ve had both experiences in the past and they are equally as rewarding for different reasons. I’m not going to say that my goal is a long term relationship, I’m open to that but I’m not going to prescribe some pressure that this needs to be a long term thing, it doesn’t, it will be what it will be.

However, a quick snapshot as to how compatible we might be, if you’re the kind of girl who would:

Enjoys being teased at any given moment; Loves to try new things in the bedroom; Would enjoy lifting their sundress and being railed from behind in a secluded space; Being set tasks/challenges to complete; Likes to wear beautiful and sexy lingerie; Loves cum and loves to orgasm (I think that one is pretty safe); or Enjoys a Scottish accent? Haha

Then if some of that interests you then, please keep reading.

My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: she loves to explore/learn/try new things, she's active/takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, honest and kinky.

Location - Scotland, UK. I occasionally travel a bit with work but generally within the UK.

To be clear, I’m open to any location and not just UK based. I’ve had experiences both locally and all around the world, both have been rewarding and fun.

Experience - Whether this is your first or fiftieth rodeo, I'm welcoming of all.

I'm an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind. If you're curious and inquisitive, we're probably a perfect match already!

I did say that I might like to entertain a switch kind of role… well it’s always been on my mind that it would be something that I’m willing to explore, it doesn’t need to be a regular thing or maybe it’s a one off but I’d be open to exploring it… pushing some of my own limits and boundaries. But what do I mean by that? I think that’s likely a more in person dynamic that I’d explore or a fantasy to discuss but I’ll leave that your imagination of what that might involve…

Your Status I know everyone can have varying opinions on this topic but I’m not going to say you must be this or that. You’re in control of this and you can make that conscious decision.

Verification/Age Let me be clear that I respect your privacy and boundaries, putting you in an uncomfortable position would never be something I want to do… I mean unless it’s literally an uncomfortable sex position but hopefully the pleasure far outweighs the uncomfort.

However, we should both be able to verify that we are who we say we are and we can do that in a way that respects our privacy.

I’m not going to say that I want someone with a certain level of experience or age. I’ve been with someone 11 years older and some slightly younger than me. I’m not going to set a limit just the absolute expectation that everyone is consenting adults and 18 .

So how would I envision verification? Probably scroll to the how to respond bit.

How to respond?

If you like what you read and want to hear more then I’d love to hear from you.

I know it can be intimidating to message or feel like what’s the point? Let me tell you how much I appreciate the effort that you put into any message and I will make the conscious effort to respond.

but how should you? well I’d love to hear what made you click on that chat button? Tell me about your experiences or what you’re looking for. Maybe share some of your wildest experiences and what you’re interested in trying. Importantly, please share some details about you and your life, your hobbies and what you do.

If you’re so inclined then you can always do a fun verification on the first couples of messages (don’t worry, you don’t need to) but I’ll leave that up to you. I’ve always thought some body art is fun to see such as my Reddit name but I’ll let you come up with it. If you really want me to give you that 100% trust then something with your D.O.B. would go a very long way (please note that I really only mean that, privacy and boundaries remain essential).

Okay, phew. I think that’s it! What an essay… if you read every part of this then, thank you and I hope it was worth it.

If any of this essay gets you excited, then the only thing left is to message me and I can’t wait to read your thoughts. Don’t worry, I don’t expect an essay back.