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44, male, never married, barely dated. I have had a "disability" since age 5. It is in quotations because I don’t like using that word in relation to myself, it has always felt like it is for people with quantifiable impairments. My ailment is non-physical, non-emotional, non-psychological, so basically, if I didn’t tell you I was on disability, you would never know until you got to know me, it is not something you can see. With that said, it has affected every corner of my life; education, relationships, working, all of it. As stated, I am on disability, and it is a meager income, to say the least. I have always felt, for just this reason alone, there are not a lot of people that would ever give me so much as a chance. If there is anyone that would, anyone still reading this, here is some more about me. I am a very stereotypical "nice guy," in that I am always polite, I do as much as I can for others, my friends are absolutely paramount in my life, and I feel that growing as a human being is very important, now and always. Hobby wise, I enjoy video games, movies, TV, spending time with friends, lots of "homebody" type stuff. I know at least a little bit about almost anything, I can hold an intelligent conversation on just about any subject. Outside, I enjoy going out to movies, late night diner trips, mini golf, playing frisbee, amusement parks (roller coasters especially), and occasional trips to NYC with friends. I’ll try most things if you ask me, but I might not be in great condition afterwards. I love to cuddle up and just talk or watch movies, that would probably be my favorite activity. I hope I can find something real, something serious, but honestly, I have never been certain that such a thing is in the cards for me. I have always felt like asking someone to accept me "as is" is simply too much. But, I am also a hopeless romantic, so I also can’t fathom ever giving up. I would like someone in the immediate area, within reasonable driving distance, but that isn’t particularly likely. So, I am also open to simply finding someone, anywhere, so long as she is open to something serious, and would also be open to moving. I am very attached to my area and my friends, I could never give up either. But, I hope that does not further impede my chances of finding someone, the deck is already pretty heavily stacked against me. If you have read this, you are probably a better person than most, let’s be honest. P.S. Trans friendly.
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