I'm a non-binary transman looking for a male partner. I am currently hoping to relocate to Birmingham, UK, but I don't currently live there; potential partner should be willing to move there, too, if one doesn't already live there. Sorry!

A bit about me:

I'm a bit of a nerd, first off. I love playing video games, especially multiplayer games: I used to play FF14, and I do want to get back to it (I haven't even completed ARR, ha). My favourite games are weird cult classics from the PS2 era, like Chulip.

I also love to read, both fiction and non-fiction. As of writing this, I'm currently reading The Way of Kings.

I would like to be more outdoorsy than I am, because I like being in nature and hiking and camping seems like a lot of fun—unfortunately I have fatigue problems so I don't often get to do that. Although apparently that's because my thyroid doesn't work on its own, and I now have medication for it, so over time I may be more up on my feet than I am, so that's exciting!

I love anime and manga: my current comfort show is Laid Back Camp.

I've been trying to get more into TV, movies, and theatre, as I've not watched many over the years. Especially theatre, even though I loved my theatre class back in high school.

I may also be autistic but I have no idea; I'm not diagnosed.

I'm also aro-/ace-spec. While I do enjoy typical romantic activities and such, it's not necessary. Although I would like to sleep in the same bed and have lots of cuddles, as I am very much a physically affectionate person. The rest of it is extra, although I still enjoy it. So if one does want to do more adult activities, I'm down. (Actually, I have little experience in that area, so I'm nervous about it, but I'm willing to explore.)

I have a habit of being a night owl. That being said, I am currently four hours behind the UK. I am sorry if I inadvertently ignore you; I'm probably just asleep.

What I'm looking for in a partner:

Of course there's "the usual", sweet, funny, considerate, but we can skip over that.

I prefer an older partner, like 35–45, but I'm not so fussy about that.

I want someone who can keep me on my feet both physically and mentally, and can otherwise match my energy tit for tat. This includes having plenty of downtime! As much as I like adventures, a nice evening in on the couch together would also be nice.

You don't have been someone into the same things as I am. If you don't really play video games, that's fine. There's still plenty we can find to do together.

I'd also like someone I can have deep, serious conversations with; some things are stressful, but we're in this together! Check-ins are a must! I want use to be able to talk to each other frankly about how we're doing and what we're feeling. Like a "rock talk."

I look forward to chatting!