Hey there! I'm a 33 years old. I live in the Midwest in the Dakotas and work in engineering. I'm going through a divorce currently and seeing what's out there. I enjoy cooking, traveling, reading, finding new music, thrifting, researching new things, and lots more. I tend to hop into different hobbies and right now I'm giving woodworking a shot which is something I'm actually really enjoying! A random skill I have is I can read Ancient Greek... I taught myself during COVID!

It's always awkward trying to "sell yourself" so I'm just going to say how others described me: I've been told I'm kind, sensitive, smart without being annoying about it, funny but have a weird sense of humor, respectful/not a sexpest but "smooth", "romantic", and "good in bed" if things progress there. I have also been told im handsome with nice hair but I think I'm pretty mid/average. I'm 6'2, white with a dadbod if that floats your boat.

What am I looking for? For now just conversation with new people, I have too much going on to immediately go into a serious relationship right away but definitely open to things progressing to something serious down the line. I have only tried the casual dating scene for a short time and absolutely hate it lol.

I do have two kids that live with me about half the time. Totally understand if that is a deal breaker for some, but as stated above im NOT looking for someone to swoop in to be a stepmom... I have no expectations besides a few conversations, and if we click we'll go from there.

Someone local (as in within a days driving distance) would be ideal but given how sparse where I live is, I'm fine with anyone online, but ideally would like to meet up somewhat soon.

What's my type? As the title says I like the company of cute weird girls. Really anyone with niche interests or hobbies they like to talk about is fine by me! Physically, to be blunt the bigger the better is what I'm most attracted to, like the bbw/ssbbw range but the most important part of attraction for me is good emotional chemistry, that drives the physical attraction, so I'm not super picky.

What am I not looking for? I really am turned off by one word repliers or people who expect me to do all heavy lifting conversationally. Any poly situation is a hard no from me, I can't get emotionally invested in someone who isn't giving me the same energy back.

Well thanks for reading, if I piqued your interest I'd love to chat!