I'm a Domme with over 5 years active experience in online and irl D/s dynamics. I'm looking for a creative kinky male submissive who's not just gonna be like "tell me what to do ma'am. I'm new so idk".

My favorite kinks include: pissing, self-sucking, sounding, spying on my sub, fisting, breath play, deep throating, posing, 24/7 full control, subtle humiliation, forced bi, TPE, public play, chastity not involving cages, consensual exposure, moaning and all kinds of noises (I have something of a sound kink).

Some non-kinky things that I also enjoy in guys are: long colorful/sporty socks, smart dress, sweat, veins, legs and feet, vulnerability, talkativeness, naturalness, feeling comfortable being naked.

I’m not into feminization, scat, mummification, chastity cages, blackmail, latex, cross-dressing, filth, stench, playing bratty, farts, diapers, on-body writing, pet play, age play, role play and their derivatives. Everything else turns me on, to varying extents. The general rule is: the more unusual, imaginative, taboo and pervy the idea is, the more I’m gonna like it.

I can’t stress enough how much I value the sub’s own creativity and input. So I repeat: if you’re going to just sit passively and wait for the tasks, not offering anything yourself, this relationship is not the place for you. In this matter (and not only this) I expect cooperation and effort from both parties. No dynamic will be a successful one in the long term if only one side tries to make it so. To sum up this point, don’t mistake being submissive for being indifferent and inert. Brains are huge assets and deserve to be used. A lot of subs contacting me say that they're totally new in this world and therefore have no ideas. Don't equate a lack of experience with a lack of imagination. And you can't justify one with the other. I realize that some ideas of a newbie may be unrealistic or just fun when fantasizing about them but not necessarily so when actually performing them, but any input and any effort is always better than no input and no effort. If you ask me, it's better to make mistakes than to just do nothing and say "I'm new so I don't know".

Start with a proper introduction with head to toe photos. "Hello" only won't do it.

Hmu :)