Hi there! If you are a dominant or switch-y woman open to a relationship with a 32-year-old submissive man, I may be able to enrich your life.

Who I am

• I value creativity, intelligence, and curiosity. I want to learn everything. I'm constantly researching random facts. (Did you know that North Korea once abducted a bunch of Flemish giant rabbits?!) I love listening to people. I love learning about their passions. I'm never bored: the world is too interesting.

• I have an active imagination. I love to read and write. I love experiencing lives beyond my own. I think stories are humanity's greatest invention. I prefer happy endings preceded by struggle and heartache. I can gush about fantasy, horror, and sci-fi for hours. I'm the proud GM of a 9-year-old tabletop RPG campaign. I also enjoy cooking, baking, films, fitness, history, and spending time with pets.

• My sense of humor is droll, dry, and wry. Why does this sound like a baking recipe?

• Kink-wise, I'm a service-oriented submissive who's been practicing BDSM on and off since 2022. I value making my partner's life happier and doing her proud. Call me a good boy and I'll feel warm and fuzzy.

• Physically, I'm 5'5", slender, Caucasian, brown-haired, brown-eyed, and short-bearded. I was once described by someone as "a handsome devil." Facetiously? Seriously? I choose to repost their words regardless! Happy to share pictures upon request.

What I have to offer

• Commitment: Organized, detail-attentive, and good at completing long-term tasks and projects
• Conversation: Engaging conversationalist well-read on a variety of topics
• Cooking: Adept cook and baker who can prepare healthful and delicious or sinfully decadent meals, as desired
• Criticism: Receptive to personal criticism with a growth-centric attitude
• Employment: Grown-ass adult with a steady job
• Experience: Have served multiple prior dommes
• Health: Drug-free, STI-free, non-smoker/drinker, regular exerciser
• History: Old account with a long posting/comment history to help vet me
• Housekeeping: Multiple years' professional cleaning experience from a prior job
• Initiative: Equally happy taking independent initiative or following directions--whatever makes your life more pleasant
• Learning: Eager to learn new skills to increase my usefulness
• Writing: Strong written communication skills; can articulately and entertainingly express ideas in personal, professional, and hobbyist contexts
• Bonus: squirms delightfully when tied up (or so I'm told!)

What I seek

Connections with dommes and switches whose personalities and interests are compatible with mine. Kink and D/s dynamics are desirable, but secondary to friendship.

Feelings I enjoy experiencing (more so than specific kinks) include: cherished and valued; praised for a job well done; controlled in my daily life; humbled and put in my place; physically and mentally helpless; uncertain and on my toes; whiplashed from alternating kindness and cruelty.

These feelings are not requirements in the least. Every domme has their own style and emotional relationship with kink: every dynamic is unique. (And apparently, I love rhymes?) Hopefully, knowing what feelings I value illustrates what I'm like as a partner.

Location: I desire an-person relationship. Someone in the greater Seattle area would be ideal, but I'm willing to start online with someone farther away. I'd want to visit in person, once we feel comfortable, and then discuss what to do from there.

The type of dynamic I seek is up for negotiation. I have an interest in a long-term female-led relationship, but I'm also open to more casual play partners (or other dynamics) if our personalities vibe. That's a discussion best had individually.

Above all, my ideal partner and I will be like peanut butter and chocolate: complete on our own, amazing together!