Hello, I'm a 34 year old male looking for a gentle Domme (or a switch).

I would like to start off by saying that my primary goal is finding a long-term partner that I have a great connection with. Kinks are still important of course, but for me, the person comes first (that's what she said lol).

With that being said, I think it's important to mention that I am leaning towards not having kids. I know this is important for some people, but I am 100% certain that I do not want kids at this moment in time, and I am like 80% certain that I never want to have them in the future. So if you are hoping to have kids one day, you have a 20% chance of persuading me in the distant future lol.

I will also say that I do not have that much experience being someone's sub so I am still discovering myself in that regard, and definitely open to exploring more with the right person. But here are a few kinks that I'm currently into (don't judge me):

• Pussy worship/cunnilingus
• Free use
• Face sitting
• Adult nursing

This might be a little TMI, but you should also know that I've often struggled with premature ejaculation, so if edging/orgasm denial is one of your kinks, you may have a hard time with that (no pun intended lol). I just don't have that "self-control", but I'm up for the challenge if you are ;)

I know this post is getting a bit long, but wait! Don't leave yet, I have more to share with you.

Personality-wise, I'm an introvert and can sometimes be a bit awkward. I like to have fun and joke around and to see the people around me happy and smiling :)

I'm not super adventurous and my hobbies are probably not that exciting if I'm being honest. I like to spend my downtime just relaxing, watching a TV show or movie, or maybe playing a video game. I also like to build and work on websites, the majority of which are too ambitious for me to finish lol. Although I've rarely done this recently, I also like to go for walks or random drives.

Physically, I am 6'2, black, and have a slim body type. I have a partial face photo on my profile if you'd like a gander. While I'm kind of attracted to a more heavyset woman, it's not a strong preference - I don't really have any strong preferences and I'm open to meeting anyone really. As I said earlier, it's about the person more than anything.

Okay, I think that's sufficient for now lol. You've made it all the way to the end so thank you. All that's left for you to do now is click on my username and send me a message. Maybe tell me what your favourite dessert is so I know you read my post (I've received many spam chats in the past). Looking forward to hearing from you :)