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You know when you get that warm fuzzy feeling inside when you see a new message from that certain someone? When you hold onto a hug a few seconds longer because neither person wants to let go? When you ugly laugh to the point of being unable to breathe over the silliest things? Being able to talk about your deepest thoughts and biggest aspirations while sitting in your car at 2 in the morning? I miss having that kind of intimacy in my life. I've been going through a personal growth phase for a while, and I feel ready enough to put myself out there and see what life throws my way. Who knows? This could be the start of something new. cue High School Musical song
About Me:
While I’m not looking to immediately jump into a serious commitment with anyone, I generally prefer to date with the intention of establishing something long-term. My schedule can get pretty busy, so I have no interest in wasting my time or yours. With that being said, quality time is my biggest love language, and I will definitely make time for my significant other when I can. One important thing to put out there is that I absolutely do not want kids. Parenthood has never appealed to me, and dogs are just so much better in my opinion. DINK3D (Double Income, No Kids, 3 Dogs) is my ultimate life goal. Hopefully, you’re down to adopt a German shepherd or three with me in the future. I'm generally pretty reserved in person until you break me out of my shell, but sarcasm and dry humor mixed in with a tiny dash of existentialism are how I communicate 90% of the time. I'm Korean but never really got into the mainstream wave of Korean pop culture, so I don't really know anything about Kpop or Korean media in general (sorry to disappoint). I'm a bit of a homebody, but I'll never turn down an opportunity to go out for new experiences whether that's trying a new restaurant, visiting a museum, or going to an event.
I started prioritizing my health recently, and I’m at the gym most days working on my Summer 2025 body. We can snort some creatine together if that’s your thing. I'd consider myself a major foodie and do a lot of cooking myself. A good chunk of my YouTube history is food-related videos, so I can cook you dinner one day and give you a literal chef's kiss. I also write music occasionally (one good thing about being forced to learn piano as a child).
About You:
Ideally, I'm looking for a 21-28 year old self-certified baddie who is local to Orange County or LA. I'm strictly looking for something that can develop in person, so I'm not interested in anything long distance. I don't really think I have a specific type when it comes to dating preferences as long as you know what you want (both emotionally and generally in life), but I will say intelligence and good communication skills are pretty sexy. Good vibes and compatibility are the name of the game. Also, the no kids part is probably important too.
Anyways, if any part of this post resonated with you, send me a chat, and we can see where things go. Let me know what you’d want me to cook for you, or if you’re feeling really spicy, tell me your red flags (both yours personally and red flags in potential partners) lol.
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