I really enjoy chatting but most people are too busy for more than occasional messages. I'd love to find more close and long-term connections. Friends to really connect with and care about, who care about me.

I'm mostly homebound due to chronic illness and disabilities. I have a lot of chronic pain and trauma. I'm ND and also have anxiety and depression. I'm queer, genderqueer, and asexual spectrum. Socialist, disability rights activist, atheist. Still COVID cautious. Generally have trouble if folks aren't on a similar page with political stuff. Human rights issues are important to me.

I'm pretty realistic and cynical, though I enjoy lighter moments and silliness when I can. I'm a great listener, excellent chatter, and love deep convos, mutual support, and holding space. I like long messages and am "too much" for some. I'm not a positive or "normal" person and tend to get along best with people who relate.

Due to health limitations, I mostly communicate via text chat. I can do things like send selfies and short videos, exchange playlists, art, poems etc. People can send me audios and videos. But if you like a lot of VC, video, or co-op, I'm not the best fit.

Interests include writing, cozy gaming, TV, YouTube, music, science, photography, nature, activism, collecting toys and plush.

Feel free to send a chat if you think we might get along AND you have a good amount of time to chat regularly. I know we all have lives but I'm specifically looking for folks who aren't busy a lot and maybe struggle with similar things. It's hard to feel like I'm often filler and get dropped when someone's IRL life picks up. I see online connections as real and meaningful. I want to find people who feel the same.

I'm not the right fit for most but could be a good fit for someone. SFW only. PST timezone but don't mind where you are if we can line up a bit. Thanks for reading!