About me

Ahoy, hoy!

I am a 30M, former film maker turned IT wizard with dry sense of humor that's marinated in goofiness. Standing at 5'6" with a moderate-slim build, a light beard and dark hair; I am softly spoken, a hard-worker, a good listener and a introspective introvert who has a tendency to think deeply about things. I am also a non-smoker and a rare drinker who values honesty almost to a fault, reliability, patience, kindness and (emotional) intelligence. Irish and living in Dublin, but will consider traveling or hosting in a hotel room with the right person. DDF, no kids, single and looking for someone similar.

I am soft in the streets and even softer in the sheets. I like to give love through gentle acts of service and quality time, but secretly receptive to compliments and a playful touch, so make of what you will with this knowledge. 😘

A SFW picture of me is on display in my profile. I also have some NSFW images on my other posts to make me feel more comfortable with expressing my body/sexuality in a artsy way. Feel free to look at those as well and tell me what you think if you're looking for an ice breaker.

How people would describe me

Friendly observers have regarded me as kind, calm, intelligent, "really decent", organised, diplomatic and sincere - But please feel free to take these for what they're worth.

What I'm looking for

Up until recently, I've been patiently looking for my person. Since my curiosity is getting the better of me, I would like to meet the right person who will take their time with me, is open-minded, gentle, warm and patient - Especially when it comes to intimacy. Preferably a non-smoker who is okay with taking things slow and being the big spoon. I really have a soft spot for soft, kind and smart goofballs. 🥺

While I am also eager to learn how to please, I am content with taking direction, exploring touch and satiating cravings. I want you to make my imagination run wild after our encounter(s) when I'm by my lonesome at night.

Even we don't end up fumbling under the sheets - I'd be delighted to get to know you to see if we click in other ways. Totally down for sharing hot chocolate or something.

Looking forward to hearing from you! 🦊