Content Warning: age-gap relationships; procreative sex; polygynous relationships. I am sincerely sympathetic to anyone who is offended or distressed by the kind of lifestyle me and my partner enjoy, and I genuinely wish you nothing but wellness if so <3

Tl;Dr: pretty much the title. I (M34) am looking for a younger (18 ), fit, attractive, and smart lady to breed and keep with my fiancée (F27) as a polygynous family.

I do not anticipate getting a ton of responses; so, if this post is still up, I’m still looking for you. I’ll keep reposting until then.

About me:

• Cisgendered, heterosexual, poly man in my mid-thirties.
• 71” tall, weigh approximately 190lbs , and I have a big dick (8” long, uncircumcised).
• Fit for my age. I either lift weights, swim, or run/hike 6 days a week.
• Hirsute with a salt-&-pepper beard and a head I keep clean shaven. I get a lot of “zaddy” comments, even though I’m still not 100% what the fuck that means.
• I’m attractive and athletic, though by no means am I everyone’s cup of tea. Here is a picture. Here is another.
• Professional in healthcare administration, considering going back into my previous line of work (military, I’m a veteran) sometime next year.
• Writing is a serious hobby of mine. There is a tiny, fractional chance I will take my writing hobby professional.
  
• Other than weightlifting and writing, I play the odd, occasional video game (obsessively, for days on end).
  
• Oh, and I love to cook. You will eat my painstakingly authentic ragu al Bolognese for weeknight dinners and my overly-fussing brioche French toast on weekends.

Situation:

Like I mentioned above, I’m looking for a younger lady as a lifelong partner in my polygynous relationship with my fiancée, and a lady who’s interested in being a mother.

Me and my fiancée have been together 8 years this Fall, and have been polyamorous/polygynous essentially our whole relationship. We have dated girls together and me dating separately during our relationship, and are hoping for someone who we can adore together. We also have gotten to the point of wanting to start our family and have kids, and we would like to find our “third puzzle piece” for that. Historically we get along best with women who I have the strongest connection with, hence why this r4r post mostly focuses on ‘me looking’ and not ‘us looking’.

My fiancée and I are also fairly ambitious people, and are both pursuing some rather high-intensity career fields. Hence, we are looking for either a 1) an equally ambitious, younger partner happy being first up for having children while we trade-off primary domestic responsibilities over time, or 2) supportive partner yearning to be a SAHM to help us achieve big things.

What I/we am/are looking for:

• 18 years old or older, both me and my partner prefer younger women.
• Single bi- or poly-sapphic (AFAB) woman.
• Fit, or looking to get fit. Gym/working out is both mine and my fiancée’s main hobby, and we’d like to share it with you.
• Ambitious. We have big plans for life, and need someone who shares big aspirations—or can be the best cheerleader.
• Personality wise we prefer an extrovert, or someone who can talk. I’m very expressive but my fiancée is pretty shy; our ideal lady is a third partner who’s a good listener, and great negotiator who can fill that gap.
• Attitude: I like princesses and tomboys pretty equally. My fiancée prefers tomboys (“the most masc, AFAB femmes possible” to quote her)

What I/we offer:

• Lifelong relationship & big family: you’ll always have support partners, and if you’re a lady who dreams of a big, lively household, here’s your ticket!
• Flexible: like I said, my fiancée and I have some ambitious career goals—but we’re happy to do our part domestically if you do not want to be a SAHM. We are also happy to support you if you do want to be our trophy wife, SAHM.
• We’re entertaining, driven, and loyal.
• If you’re into/interested in FFM threesomes, you struck the jackpot.
• Occasional back rubs.

Next steps:

If this unusual offer sounds like heaven to you, DM me! Please have a picture of yourself, and tell me a bit about who you are. I would love to hear about your interests, your life, and your wants/goals. I’ll ask to move to telegram fairly quickly, mostly because Reddit chat barely works on my mobile.

***Geographic notes:

Currently located in California (Bay Area, East Bay), but I am moving to NYC sometime early next year. I’m open to you being from *wherever* (and highly encourage any ladies from Europe reach out!), as long as there is a plan/roadmap/clear opportunities to cohabitate and make babies.