I have been sexually submissive since my first time with a girl in college. In public I am confident and can even appear to be in charge at times, taking the lead. However, when with a woman sexually, I become a total submissive, obedient and eager to please his goddess.
After doing some research and a lot of thinking I have decided I need a FLR with a woman who wants the same. I want to be moulded, perhaps micromanaged into the best version of myself that you need and desire. Your perfect 'good boy', well trained through goal-setting, positive reinforcement, merciless teasing and denial and restrictions put in place when needed.

The ideal dynamic consists of us living our normal lives together as any couple would. To the outside world we are a great match and appear fun and social. But, as soon as the doors close, I kneel, give up total control to you and crave your attention and validation. A true Female Led Relationship where protocols, structure, and rules ensure that when you lay your head down at night you’ve been worshipped, praised, pampered and satisfied. Even though you will often not have to lift a finger, we will work together as a couple towards true happiness and fulfilment. A duo where we are both happy.

Kink wise I'm not after anything heavy pain wise, more controlling. Happy to discuss these further though! 

About you This lifestyle makes total sense to you. You have control over your day to day life yet yearn for a man to boss around, tell what to do and is always there to please you selflessly. Publicly, no one would guess you wear the trousers. I'm not expecting an extroverted and opinionated woman who exudes confidence in her day to day life. But, one who is naturally controlling and comfortable in telling her man what to do, how to it, when to do it and what will happen if I don't do it.

20s to mid 40s (can be flexible). Enjoys being active and having a healthy mind and body. Enjoys going out to restaurants and bars. Enjoying the finer things life has to offer. Intelligent and a good sense of humour.

Not local is not a deal breaker right now but, eventually this needs to be real.

About me: Tall, slim, cute looking, dress well with dark blonde hair and blue eyes.

Bonus points if you love to go to the gym and keep fit, as this is part of my weekly routine.  Are a bit of a foodie. Can enjoy cultural activities (museums, lectures, gigs, exhibitions etc.). 

Interested? Reply with a small introduction about yourself that includes your age, location, experience, desires, and what about this post that spoke to you.  Including a photo of yourself will obviously catch more of my attention (I will return with one as a show of good faith), but I understand that can be scary right off the bat so only encouraged.