Hello,

It's getting painfully lonely these days, Tinder banned me because I posted a link to my band, and I'm too scared to put my face on anything else my ex-coworkers or someone could possibly see me on.

🚩In the interest of honesty, getting the red flags out of the way first:🚩

I'm 5'6", take it or leave it, so stoked for when I never have to talk about this again

I'm an only child living at home taking care of my elderly parents full time, It sucks lol

I'm currently between "real" jobs (I get caretaker benefits though).

No kids (don't want any), never had a ton of girlfriends, lonely douche.

Probably not taking things seriously enough.

🟩 But here are the green flags: 🟩

760 credit score, no debt

I'm very empathetic and sensitive. For about a year I was working with at-risk youth and houseless folks until the weird non-profit I was with did typical weird non-profit things.

Musician for 20 years. Singer, guitarist, songwriter/lyricist, exec. producer in 400 Spotify follower music project that was recorded at my friend's (actual) studio who is a legit industry vet, I have material on streaming, worldwide radio airplay, awards, placement in a short film that was shown at the towns film festival, live shows are in the works (although I did a DJ set opening for my friends band not too long ago). My friend has also started a record label that I work with them on.

I am sexy. I have long dark hair and light blue eyes with a handsome face, nice smile, and deep voice. I'm skinny but not flabby, I work out during periods when I can and stay away from sugar as much as possible. I will send photo proof and expect the same (if that's ok.)

I have style. I wear almost exclusively black but I don't look like a chump. I picked up a vintage Harley leather jacket from the 60s recently and it fits me perfectly. I have cool friends and get invited to cool local things a lot.

I have 2 awesome big puffy Maine Coon cats named Max and Boris.

I've been in therapy for a long time.

I’m a musician and I love music, bands, rappers, songs, albums, live performances, everything. While I don't have the relationship with art, literature, movies, video games, etc that I do with music, I appreciate and love all of it. My favorite band is probably Depeche Mode, who I saw live last year and was predictably incredible. I also attended a festival last year called Darker Waves in LA and saw New Order the week before. I like my cats, going out to eat, planning day-trips, 35mm photography (when I can afford to get stuff developed), getting out of the house, playing around with the Canva video editing suite, trying to be more outdoorsy, obviously much more.

I don't know what my intentions are here. I honestly have a lot going on and probably shouldn't be trying to do stuff like this, but I'm really lonely, and it sucks showing up at every damn get-together or BBQ or party alone for the 200th time, so it's always nice to chat/flirt with someone. I guess it's always a roll of the dice trying to meet people, especially as I can't really relate to recreationally cruel/mean people, but even if it's a friend to flirt with online I feel like that's very important. I don't know what else to say. Hot girls please hmu ffs lol