I don’t know about you, but that special something has been missing for too long in my life. What am I talking about?

You know, these things:

-nightly and morning snuggles -sitting and sharing a morning coffee or tea together -putting your head in my lap while we watch tv so I can rub your head -you coming up behind me while I am cooking or on the couch to put your hands up under my shirt and give me a hug -showering together in the morning before work (just because, not for sex. Well ok, sometimes) -long walks hand in hand -long hikes up a mountain -long conversations about everything and nothing -sitting side by side, your arm around me and mine around you, just watching the rain or the world go by -etc, etc, etc…

Please, let me know if I forgot any important ones!

Here’s a little about me:

I try not to take things too seriously and I like being silly. Go ahead, be zany when you message me! Kindness is also important to me. I'm supportive and believe in good communication and trust in a relationship.

I'm quite active, exercise is a central aspect of life to me. Hiking, biking, weight lifting, beach volleyball, etc. I love the outdoors and feel at peace in nature. I also love the city too. Restaurants, small intimate concerts, dancing, street fests, all those fun things. A good balance between the two is key, as is slowing down and resting when needed. Who doesn’t love a lazy day!

I’m pretty darn nerdy and like reading/watching fantasy and scifi books/tv/movies. Some hobbies of mine include playing guitar and music production, drawing, sewing and other crafting/art endeavors. Recently did a lot of improv too! I also try to stay mindful.

In case you haven’t noticed by now, touch is my main love language. Physical interaction doesn’t really mean much without emotional connection though, in my opinion. Nothing compares to that. And I'm definitely the type of person who thinks experiences are better when you share it with a partner.

My physical stats are 6’3'' tall, about 185, dirty blond hair and blue eyes with a beard (but that’s negotiable 😜). Can always trade pics if all this sounds good to you so far. I would prefer a partner who also wants an active lifestyle, maybe even someone to exercise together at times. Other than that I love new experiences and connecting with people, so even if you have different hobbies teach me something new! Also not against moving somewhere new for the right reasons, change can be exciting.

Insert Ferris Bueller meme “You’re still here?” If so, thanks for coming with me on this journey. Let’s write a new chapter together 🙂