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... I've always been very physical in the way I love. Touch is my love language and always has been and after being single for a while I find myself wishing I had someone worth pulling close again. I talk a lot as well and have strong communication skills but sometimes I would rather speak with my hands, with my lips, by pulling someone close so they feel real.
I am happy and satisfied with where my life is at the moment and it is very peaceful after a few years of struggle. I can rest again and it was well earned because there are different universes where I didn't make it to today. After fighting so hard to rebuild my life, I feel it would be more comfortable with someone else to share it with.
I've been through a lot and it still bears it's scars but I will always be kind because making someone genuinely happy is more valuable than any amount of money ever could be to me. Because the only reason I care about money is as a resource to take care of and help others and myself. I've never been materialistic, and I am the type of person who thinks my partner is my everything even when they have nothing.
Because it isn't what someone has or does for a living that matters to me. It is who they are, and how they treat me and being kind to me is what makes or breaks a relationship. Fighting and violence are a surefire way to drive me away from you.
I just want a bit of peace and company and love in the end.
Maybe a kid or two down the road but only if I truly believe I've found my girl. Plus the only way I am ever gonna get a house at this rate is with help and I'd imagine it's probably the same for you.
Isn't it weird being a millennial?
Well I suppose you could be gen Z too because I am a young millennial but you get my point.
As for what I find attractive - mostly someone's personality. But I do care about looks a little bit, and tend to find a shorter, smaller woman more attractive. I am quite a tall man and find it really hot when my partner is a lot smaller than me.
And hey, you could stop having to climb on the counter all the time when I'm around.
I'm also fairly fit and active myself and want the same in my partner because I had to put a lot of work into my health. I don't want to die ten years before my partner does. Because I am looking for someone to keep forever. If you don't care about yourself then why should I care about you either?
You have to love and care about yourself before you love someone else.
I dunno why you're still reading this if you don't want to talk, but let's do that.
I got time. I promise.
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