I have no idea where to post this, so I'll post it in a couple places (sorry, lmao.) But, since it’s now summer, I’d like to check something off my bucket list that I’ve wanted to do for a little while now.

I’ve had this fantasy of being a younger guy’s first time. The thought of being able to guide and help someone who’s maybe just graduated high school and is going off to college in the fall is weirdly appealing to me. Maybe that’s creepy, but mentoring a younger guy and helping him come into his own and get comfortable with sex sounds so rewarding to me.

Everyone’s first time is always so abrupt and awkward, but it doesn’t have to be. Imagine if, instead of focusing so much on a single, stressful event, being introduced to sex was something that was allowed to happen gradually and with support; if the first time didn’t carry with it all of the superfluous anxiety, but you instead knew I was committed to a second and third and fourth time. That’s what I’m imagining: being a teacher and a friend for an inexperienced guy for part of the summer. Weekend evenings spent hanging out, answering questions and letting him figure out what feels good that turn into sleepy morning sex when we wake up the next morning. Showing him how to make a girl cum and building his confidence. Setting him up for success in the future. Besides, I see this as a service to any women he meets in college.

About me:

• Bisexual and very sex-positive
• Patient and (I've been told) conventionally attractive
• Experienced and interested in sharing it
• Clean, tested regularly, and on birth control
• Versatile (but looking to teach)

About you:

• Virgin, legal (ideally 18,) and other obvious preambles
• Interested and able to have something somewhat ongoing
• On the east coast or Chicago (I travel for long-ish stretches during the summer but live full-time in NYC)
• Not a douchebag (I have to like it too, after all)
• Curious, cute, and interested in learning

Drop me a line with your age and location if this is similar to what you're looking for. I'm interested in getting to know you and talk more!