I'm currently looking for someone I can have a long-term secondary partnership with. I'm in an open marriage and am ready to start looking for someone again.

I enjoy using reddit for this because it allows for a connection to be built without the pressure of having to meet up right away. I don't care about your location, but I do prefer someone in the USA and on the east coast.

Of course, I have preference and non negotiables. You must be between the ages of 29 and 38. I've found that the older someone is, the less attracted I am. I want someone with a good sense of humor, easygoing, and has a high emotional intelligence. You must be open to talking to me about anything and everything and understand how to hold a conversation. If I'm the only one asking questions, I will stop answering. Please don't call me pet names.

Extra points for men who are South Asian.

Please, tell me your age, where you are from, and something about yourself that you think is important for me to know. If you don't, I will not answer you because it will be clear you didn't bother reading this.

I am considered attractive. I am tall, mixed race(mostly white and Hispanic), have long black hair, brown eyes, and glasses. I have a great shape(not fat but not skinny).

I am NOT a gamer or considered nerdy. I'm not looking for a "golden retriever boyfriend." People keep saying that, and it doesn't make sense to me. I am not interested in bigger guys. Dad bods are hot, but bigger is not. We'll groomed is a must. Please, please, please, be friendly and open and willing to show me a pic here before we move to telegram. I get cautious, but people who are too paranoid aren't a good fit for me.

I don't want to have anything to do with your wife. I feel like it should go without saying, but here we are.

🖤 Thank you!