Trying to meet people in real life has been dismal, so here I am again with a more specific request. You can also read the other post on my profile for more information about me.

I’m a 30 year old Southeast Asian girl based in GMT 8. I’m looking for someone to hyperfixate on, someone that inspires me and gives me the motivation and confidence to do better and be better. At the same time, I want to listen to you, get to know you and (hopefully) be that inspiration and motivation to you too.

This can be platonic or romantic, but I do want to dig down and discover all the little details about you. I want to be able to say that I know every single inch of you, every crevice of your brain, every aspirational dream and deep, dark secret. I want to learn about you, basically. Romantic connections, passionate ones do tend to work better for this. NSFW topics are definitely on the table, but being demisexual - let’s not jump into it straight away.

Let me develop an interest in your brain, your personality and it’ll come naturally.

I want to be the reason you’re smiling at your phone, the person who makes you light up and the person you want more than anything. Let it be reciprocal and there’ll be fireworks. I’m rambling again so let’s wrap this up.

About Me - 30, female, Southeast Asian - Curvy, light skin, almond shaped eyes, glasses, tattooed and 159cm. Conventionally attractive. - Loves reading, writing, music (moods, not genres) but also video games, journalling, makeup/dressing up - Snarky when comfortable, swears like a sailor (in four different languages), kind of geeky (Warhammer 40k, BioWare games, Star Trek, Dead By Daylight and more) - Can be moody, neurodivergent, obsessive at times. High libido when emotionally engaged.

About You - Male, aged between 27 - 39, preferably with a schedule or located somewhere that allows us to talk frequently. - Some common interests - Enjoys reading, willing to listen to me infodump or obsess over whatever project I’ve got going on this week, is willing to share and be open about themselves. - No hard preferences on physical appearance except please be open to voice or video calls and sharing photos eventually.

While this is currently listed as online, I am open to meeting up in the future if things work out. Please put in some effort when you message, low-effort ones will not be entertained.

Thanks!