Do you know how some crazy writers, designers or musicians have a person that accompanies them, that inspires and/or calms them down? Someone they can in turn adore and admire, in a caring and nurturing way? That's the vibe I'm looking for!

-About me physically-

Now obviously you want an idea what I look like. I'm 6'1 and I do have a wide frame. I'm not super muscular, so if you're looking for one of those grilled chickens that walk the stage in bobybuilding competitions, I'm not your guy. But I'm lean and you can see that I'm taking care of myself. I have very pale skin, black wavy hair and very dark quite expressive eyes. Something people point out quite often are my hands. They're long and very soft apparently. I'll leave it at that :) Most of the stuff I wear is black or gray if that matters. I like formal as well as casual clothing.

-Interests-

I do have very geeky interests I must admit. I love writing (what a surprise), reading, trading card games and gaming. There's a variety of genres I like to read, so there's a good chance I read something you like! I've seen many many movies, the same rule applies here.

I like writing poetry, so be prepared for a romantic gesture if I really, really like you. But I also write other stuff which I will not go into detail on here. I like going to events that are centered around my interests. I'd always be down to go to a museum, book fair or any similar event or place.

I do love going to the gym too. Used to do a variety of sports, but now it's "just" working out at the gym. I am definitely not a "Gym Bro" though!

I work part-time and I'm planning some big steps careerwise soon!

WARNING: I am a very jealous and protective person. I like to be transparent about that.

-What I'm looking for-

18 , preferably younger than me. I think women can be gorgeous in many ways, however I'll be straightforward about preferences. I do like darker hair, and believe it or not, women on the "taller" side (~170cm). These are preferences, not inclusion/exclusion criteria! That does not mean I can't be attracted to you if you're 5'2 and blonde! You don't need to be super fit or anything either, but since I take care of myself I would prefer that you live a somewhat healthy lifestyle (no need to be a "gym rat" or anything). If you don't smoke or drink that's a huge plus as I don't do that either. But please don't be discouraged, everyone has preferences but that doesn't mean there isn't a large variety of things that I find attractive.

Having shared interests is very important here. If you're into any kind of arts and/or have a creative hobby that's a huge plus! I'm looking for someone I can eventually go to a museum with, or long walks through a park at night. You will be my additional motivator for my creative endeavours, my muse after all :) I need someone who's a great communicator. I'm very talkative and I pride myself on being a great listener. Therefore I'm expecting you to be similar in that regard.

-The BDSM aspect of this-

I am the epitome of a soft dom. Don't get me wrong, I can apply/enforce rules and be strict when needed. However, I love the soft and affectionate part of being dominant. It gives me great comfort to provide great comfort. I value the emotional and spiritual aspect of domination as much as the physical if not more. I want you to feel safe and comfortable in my presence. I want you to feel as if you can let go of everything. I will however remind you every now and then who's in charge :) Only definite limits (apart from illegal stuff obviously) are scat and ballbusting. I will go into more detail about all of this in private, but I left some big clues here...

This is strictly for a longterm dynamic/relationship! I'm not interested in any casual shit. It would be great if you live in Germany, anywhere in Europe is fine. This can start as an online dynamic but I want it to be irl in the near future. Messages in German are also welcome of course. If I piqued your interest and/or you got any questions, feel free to message me!