I noticed that a lot of women online are looking for a genuine intellectual connection, while a lot of men are looking for something more visual and sexual. I don't mean to generalise but I'm observing a trend. Why should those two different priorities go against each other though? Why do we think we have to reject one of them to receive the other? The truth is: Men like great conversations as well, women enjoy sexting too. So let's combine it to get the best out of it.

I'd love to talk to you. I want to have a great conversation with you that goes way beyond small talk. I'd like to find out what kind of person you are. What drives you. What scares you. Even if you think you are the most boring person on the world, that's fine with me. Here's the catch though: I want to get to know you, not just intellectually - but also visually. What I mean by that is that I'd like to see you naked as well. Exploring your mind and your body at the same time. I'm open to expose myself as well if you want me to but that's not a must. I don't send you any unsolicited dick pics. Also I don't want you to feel uncomfortable so you can just say no at any point. I won't ask anything of you that I wouldn't do myself.

Just to be clear, this isn't about being the most beautiful, good looking, sexy person. I don't mind if you are thin or overweight, 18 or 50, self-confident or super-shy. This is about exploring and discovering another person, getting to know each other. As a start here are some basic stats about me: I'm 34 years old, about 1.94m / 6'4 tall and from Germany. I have been told that I have a deep and calming voice, just in case we ever voice chat.

If you made it all the way to this point please send me a message and include the color of the object that you see, when you look up from your screen right now. Just so I know you read my whole post and are okay with every part of it. I'm looking forward to read from you.