I'm 30 y/o, former film maker turned IT wizard with a dry sense of humor that's marinated in goofiness. I am well spoken, a hard-worker, a good listener and a introspective introvert who has a tendency to think deeply about things. Friendly observers have regarded me someone that's kind, intelligent, really decent, organised, diplomatic and sincere - But please feel free to take that for what it's worth. A non-smoker and rare drinker who values honesty almost to a fault, reliability, kindness and (emotional) intelligence.

So, I lost my dad not too long ago due to an aggressive illness and I've been feeling very lonely lately. Outside of work, I don't really have anyone to talk to and spend most of my time at home with mum. While I consider myself good at maintaining and participating in dialogue, I don't have a lot to talk about these days or get up to much in the evenings... I dance to jazz on occasion, but taking a bit of a break from that and usually sit on the outskirts to help cleanup at the local scene. I'm rarely found in the pub, but I sometimes enjoy a glass of whiskey, rum or cider with dinner at home or in good company. I'm also contemplating about the Steam Deck and whether I should bide my time for a refurbished OLED or settle for an LCD panel... I've applied for an opportunity in work and the team seem to really want me there which is nice.

I've connected with a few online companions from these parts in the past. However, thinking about what I would like to expect is a little challenging due to grief. I am always on the look out for helpers to broaden my perspective on life, so at the bare minimum, I'm seeking good company to help focus my mind off things. Ideally, someone patient kind understanding and loyal who is okay with taking things slow. I hope that's okay with you. Oh, and please be available - I understand we both might be busy, but if you're not interested at any point just say so. Last thing I need is to feel like yesterday's jam.