Hey everyone! Back again, my name is Tom, I'm 36 from Ohio. I've had an absolute roller coaster of emotional shit happen this month but after an amazing weekend out of town I realize....I want that special someone to share amazing moments with. I dream of the house, the yard, the fence, the dogs, the kids...I couldn't see my life without them! But I also now feel a sense of freedom and want to go on adventures! I'd love to share those adventures with you and our perfect family we build.

About me- I'm 6'1", on the chubby side (about 290 lbs currently). I'm working on that, but with all the stress and emotions of this month I've put myself on the backburner. Going to be getting back to the gym, going on daily walks, eating healthier, etc. My health is good right now....I want to keep that for as long as possible. My biggest interests are sports, movies, music, and road trips. I'd LOVE to find someone who, if not a big sports fan, at least enjoys the idea of going to a game, because it's one of my favorite things! I enjoy concerts and seeing new places, but I also like a nice quiet night on the couch under a blanket together. I'm a hopeless romantic at heart, and I guess I've always had this adventurous spirit. But I've always been too focused on taking care of family members to really pursue them. That has changed and I'm itching to go!

You- Any height, size, hair color, etc (things that guys normally seemed concerned about) is fine with me. I'm probably most attracted to moderately tall, thick women, but I'm far more concerned with your personality and how well we mesh than your looks. My age preference is probably 25-30. I've always seemed to get along with and be attracted to younger, plus I'd very much like to have my own children and I know time is a consideration with women. But if you're under 25 but mature for your age OR closer to my age and think we'd get along anyway, I'd still love to hear from you!

Location- I'm in the far Northwest corner of Ohio. Think like between Toledo and Fort Wayne, Indiana. My family and friends are here, so my first preference is someone local or willing to relocate here. However, at this point of my life.....anything is on the table! Where we'd live is very much figureoutable (is that a word? lol) if the connection is there! As long as communication is good and there'd be a plan to travel, meet, and eventually be together if/when the time is right, ldr is 100% ok.

Basically I'm just your basic guy approaching middle age wanting adventure, a family, and to live a long, happy life beside someone I love and who loves me back! If you think that could be you I'd love to hear from you!