Well, here I am again just trying to find someone who can be upfront and know what they want. I am not a game player (unless its magic or tabletop then hells yeah, I am!) I am an upfront person with my wants, thoughts, and feelings. You tell me something is going on and you can't talk for a bit, totally ok! I get that life happens and sometimes you need a break or to just be alone for a while. You're talking to other people? Again, if we aren't dating, who cares? Just don't blindside me one day and say well I was talking to someone else and now were dating bye! Seriously it's just communication, I am not sure why it's so hard for people to do. You cannot hurt my feelings by being upfront and honest!

Thanks for coming to my TED talk lol onto what I am looking for! I want someone close and who can be a good friend to start out. I believe all relationships should start as friends and move on from there. I prefer audio messages mainly because I come across super harsh sometimes with text and I am 100% not trying to be that way. I have ADHD and BPD but have gone to therapy for both and am currently working on better skills to balance my life.

I do have an 11-year-old and they are obviously first in my life. I don't want more biological kids but am open for adoption or even foster care. I believe there are already to many kids out there who need love and stable parents for me to justify having any more kids of my own. I want to help the world not leave it with more problems.

I am an avid animal lover and have a small zoo of my own at home with 3 cats, a dog and a hedgehog! It's a lot I know but they all came into my life needing help and love, so I gave it to them. They all are very important to me and are not going anywhere so if you don't like animals or think the amount I have is ridiculous don't bother messaging me.

I love all kinds of music and my playlist is varied and long. Chances are you and I probably have someone we like to listen to in common, but I am always looking for new music to add to it! I am currently on a Bring me the horizon, Beartooth, Conner Price and Anything Corpse involved kick. I love concerts but I get anxious in large crowds, so I am not much of an upfront goer or a mosh pit person. If that's you I envy you! I would love to be able to do that sort of thing, but I was right up stage twice in my life for concerts that were important to me and shall not be doing that lightly again. Just not my thing -\(-,-)/-

I also read a lot but have had to start doing audio books since my job has me driving around a lot. I plan on buying all the books I have listened to so I can have a real-life trophy collection in my reading room. it's a slow process but it's a small goal I have. I read anything fantasy, Mystery, a little paranormal/horror and love stuff.

I also crochet and try to get out and do more outdoor things as well. I have a motorcycle and with the weather getting warmer I will be out on it a heck of a lot more which is something else I enjoy. I like just driving and riding around, finding new places, or just enjoying nature.

If you've read this far Awesome! I appreciate it! Last thing I need to say is that I am nonbinary AFAB (assigned female at birth for those who don't know) and am Pansexual. I care more for your personality and if we click that looks. I also really don't want to be involved with anyone younger than 28 or older than 38. I feel like any older and you're getting a bit close to my mother's age and any younger and you should be dating my sister. It's just a thought process thing with me. I don't mind NSFW but please at least get to know me, Thanks.

Thanks for taking the time to read all of this and I hope to hear from you soon!