Hi, I'm Teskia, a black nonbinary (afab) person who is currently looking for a partner either in the DMV area or nearby and willing to travel to come meet me.

Long story short, I'm lonely, and I'm looking to help ease the loneliness that has been eating away at me for the past 4 years. I've been trying dating apps and everything but no luck.

I'm extremely needy and my cup isn't able to be filled easily. I need a lot of reassurance and a lot of effort put into this even if it doesn't last.

Things about me: I'm asexual, and I know, while that's a turn off, if with the right person, I'm open to sex, eventually. But it may be a while. But currently, I'm not into sex at all. And since people don't understand: that means no bjs, no nothing. I had a double mastectomy and a hysterectomy. I'm 5'2. I am strictly monogamous and do not want a partner with multiple partners or one that wants to have sex with others while I'm with them. I'm extremely needy. I need a lot of attention from the person I'm with. I'm extremely touch starved and just want to feel like I'm good enough. I will give you most if not all my attention. I like pet play and I'm open to wearing a collar with your name on it while we're out. I can't handle long distance relationships. I'm too needy for that, and it's overwhelming to me. My love language is gift giving and physical time together. I have a lot of mental health issues, and can easily be overwhelmed in certain scenarios. I like anime and comic book movies. I'm a nerd so hopefully we can nerd out together. I have a lot of mental health struggles, so if you can't deal with that than I don't think I'm right for you. I need alot of compassion and understanding. I really want someone committed to this, I'm tired of guys saying they want something and not trying. Also no gym rats, please and thanks.

Lastly, I have a preference for white men, that are older than me (27 or even in their 40s) and taller than me. Men who have facial hair and a dad bod are extra attractive to me.