What I'm Looking For

At the moment, I'm looking for people who love to learn, who want to learn zazen, that is just sitting mediation. I think it would be really fun and peaceful. I'm also looking for worldbuilders and thinkers.

Introduction

First off. I want someone who reads.

I know that's an inaccessible statement.

I love all my friends with dyslexia, but I have enough of them.

I do my best to live my life in public, and my reddit is, I hope, reflective of at least part of who I am. But because I do actually care about accessibility very deeply, the rest of this post is going to go over things you can (and can't) learn about me by digging through my public self.

About Me

The Not Horny Parts

I am many things, here are some of them

Senior Cloud Engineer I've spent the last 7 years of my life doing cloud engineering for big companies. I've gotten pretty good at it, but I prefer not to talk about work. One thing that this has given me though is an opportunity to think at scale. So many things become radically different at scale. And that's why I'm trying to introduce everyone to thinking this way.

PhD Student I am currently in the process of indexing and ordering my research on Information, Logistics, Collaboration, and their role in brain function, with specific focus on learning and education. I don't currently don't have anything worth reading, but I've done a ton of research and will likely bring it up quite often (because it's relevant often). One of the difficulties I'm having is figuring out what I want to get my degrees in. Current contenders are Information Science, Electrical Engineering, Education, Psychology, and Neuroscience, though this list always seems to be growing.

Inventor The first thing people ask when they hear this title is "What have you invented?" and that's exactly what I would ask too. Unfortunately, most of my inventions are owned by aforementioned big companies. Which is why I've recently trying to focus on non-work related inventions. And that project is going well. I have several prototypes that are undergoing testing and the results are promising. Several of these inventions are related to information storage and retrieval, as well as productivity, conversation, and even image generation. If any of those sound interesting, I can tell you more.

Fiance I'm not single, I'm not looking for a romantic connection. I'm looking to make strong and interesting connections with strong and interesting people

Zen Buddhist My spirituality is deeply important to me. I have invested a significant portion of the last 25 years to the pursuit and refinement of my spiritual experience. If you aren't familiar with Zen, the essential principle is the experience of reality. Each person's experience is unique, and yet enlightenment is achievable by all. This is but one of innumerable dualities that reveal the fundamental truths of the connectedness of all things. One of the other things that really resonates with me about Zen is the acknowledgment of the reality that experience transcends words, and that only by meditation and zazen (Just Sitting) can we reach the truth.

Game Designer and World Builder I love designing games, mechanisms, and systems. Thinking about and discussing systems and mechanisms and how they interact with each other is one of my favorite activities in the world.

The Horny Parts

Slavery makes my cunt wet. I cum to misogyny. Women are made to be slaves.

If those statements appeal to you, the chance that we'll get along is dramatically higher. At my core, I'm a very kinky person, and I've found that I match best with other kinky people.

I have really been enjoying the discussions, relationships, and worlds that have resulted from my posts in r/dirtypenpals, and would like to have more of those.

Main Kinks (In Order)

1. Misogyny
2. Objectification
3. Degradation
4. Collars
5. Slavery
6. Outfit Control
7. Exhibitionism

Other Kinks (Unordered)

Bondage (all) - Love it, the heavier and more dire the better
Predicaments - Same as above
Body Modification - One of my all time favorites.
Domestic Servitude - Can be hard to play, but lots of fun
Slavery - One of my all time favorites
Torture (all kinds) - Into it, with some minor limitations with regards to knives, but I'll bring it up when/if it becomes relevant.
Humiliation/Degradation - Love it to pieces
Forniphilia - Oh god do I love this one. There's not enough of it
Piss Play - Love it actually
Snuff - I've recently learned that I love it
Lactation - Fun
Orgasm Control - Should it ever be any other way?

Limits

1. Heavy focus on blood, knives, needles, and scat
2. Puke
3. Underage # About You
4. You are confident
5. You like yourself
6. You don't think you need to have all of these qualities
7. You read this whole post
8. You write to me with more than one sentence
9. You are older than me
10. You read
11. You love meta-narrative
12. You like Neo Classical Fusion Music # Contacting Me Reddit chat is better for me than reddit messages, but if we get past a few sentences I would prefer to move to Discord.

In your message tell me:

1. Your age
2. Your time zone
3. Is your reddit representative of who you are?
4. What's your favorite wikipedia page? (I support wikipedia)