That's the problem with dating apps. I've been in the dating game long enough to see and understand that everyone is literally disposable. A potential partner's eyes aren't the right color? Next. He blows his nose into the wrong color handkerchief? Next. What happened to spending time talking to, getting to know, accepting someone for thier faults and quirks, and building something beautiful together? I know what happened. The internet did. The internet has made it possible to dispose of and delete someone out of your life who isn't the picture perfect person you're imagining they should be.

Yet - here we are on the same internet, looking for someone, our next interest, our next potential partner, with the hope that we won't be disposed of for the next best thing.

I'm 39, reside in Kentucky, and I'm looking for someone to get to know. I literally will never ask you for nudes. I won't try to get in your pants on the first (or second, or third, or fourth) date. You know why? I honestly DON'T CARE about getting in your pants. I'm sure you probably have lady parts down there, and that's good enough for me, ok?

I'm responsible. I'm drug free. I am gainfully employed. I'm 6'3 (yes really, for those of you who like tall guys). I kinda have a beard, not really, kinda. I own my own home. I own my own vehicle. I have no felonies, and aside from *almost* going to jail for street racing years ago, have never had any run in's with the police. I am a catch - so why are none of you putting the same effort into me that I would you? I know why..

It's because I'm different. I'm married. I'm polyamorous. Yes, I've been married seventeen years this November and have absolutely no interest in that ever changing. I'm not trying to "spice up" a failing marriage. My marriage has never been healthier. She knows I'm here. She's sitting beside me as I'm typing this. Say "hi", honey.. *Hi!*.. So yeah. I'm different. My household is different. I live my life vastly different than many people do, and you know what? I'm happy with it this way.

I've rambled enough. Here's a picture of me if that's important to you. [Imgur](https://i.imgur.com/R6krOJI.jpg)

There's much more to me than a picture though. I can fix literally almost anything. Need brakes on your car? I've got you. Need to be held after a long day at work? Arms are open. Tired of being lied to, used, treated like dirt? Come get you some honesty and compassion. Ask me your tough questions. Ask me the things no other guy has ever been straight with you about. If you're interested, you know what to do.

Cheers..