About me:

33 AFAB NON-BINARY PERSON They/them 5’4” slim, strong, androgynous, Fair skin, dark eyes, short dark hair. Strong striking features. Pansexual seeking other pansexuals. ACAB BLM Anti Consumerist, and a Hopeful Romantic. Independent and low key.
I am an artist with a day job, but I’m getting into content creation, and I have a couple of small businesses I’m starting. I live and work in Chicago but I’m working towards establishing a tiny homestead and a mushroom farm just outside of the city. I’m hoping to be able to travel more in the future for content collaborations, so I would love to have a partner who makes content too. My fantasy being that we tour national parks and “love hotels” while traveling to meet with collaborators. So part time traveling with a cozy home base for my plants and animals. Lol.

Overall I’ve been working on building a life someone might want to share with me in the future.

The things that bring me the most joy lately are spoiling my rescue dog, a five year old Shiba Inu named Edie. She loves music and looks like a teddy bear come to life. And growing my own cannabis, which I have gotten pretty good at.

I went through a hard break up at the beginning of the pandemic and I haven’t really felt ready to date seriously again since then and honestly I’m still terrified now. So I need patience and gentleness in order to open up. I am interested in taking things slow 🐢 and establishing a deep authentic connection where we feel like we really know each other. I’m a complex person and I want to be with an equally complex partner who is comfortable and interested in seeing all the different parts of me, and how they fit together. Someone who stays curious about me. I know that I can provide that for my partner, and that I view it as a privilege to get to know them like that. But it’s a lifelong process.

I love giving a lot of physical affection and affirmation, and I’ve missed that about being in a relationship. I am a very sexual person and having a lot of attraction between us is important to me. I would prefer to meet someone pansexual because it is important to me that my partner understands the full spectrum of attraction. It is a nonnegotiable to use the correct pronouns for me all the time. To friends, family, and strangers. It’s one of those things that lets me know that you get me and can see me for who I am.

Reach out if you feel like we might vibe. Hope to hear from you.