I don't work. I have just enough VA benefits, my bills are paid and now I try to only do things that make me happy. 420 friendly nerd, so I'm your guy if you're looking for a smoking buddy to play co-op games with on Xbox (I have multiple, so we can actually sit together to play without needing split-screen) Nature is my jam, so I like hiking and my favorite date is holding hands at the Zoo. I also miss going to the movies and would love to try new restaurants (or introduce you to my favorite places). I like gardening and my favorite plants all make food. Sunflowers were a lot of fun last year, so I'm doing those again with carrots and trying to pick a fruit to grow this year. I do like dirty chat and trading pics, but I only use Snapchat for that. I don't send unsolicited anythings, so please ask nicely and ask often. I won't save anything without permission either, so please do the same for me. Assertiveness in what you want sexually, is incredibly attractive to me. Someone that will ask for what they want and when they want it. I always want cuddles and hand holding, but anything else, please ask consent. If you say something along the lines of "May I kiss you" I will try to get out the "yes" before I melt into a puddle. I never want to pressure anyone into anything they don't want to do in the moment. I just let you know all the things I like and leave the decision on what you want, to you. My kinks are probably pretty tame compared to most. I really like oral. Wanting to be with more than one girl is just because the only thing I can think of better than going down on one girl is going down on two. Haven't been single since I was 16 and I've never had a passport, so there's an incredible amount of things I've never done. I may end up losing my fight with mental illness someday. I want a friend I can go on adventures with, that wants to be part of crossing things off my bucket list and seeing all the places I've never been to