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I present at multiple events each year. I run workshops as well at these events. I will not keep this post up too long. I'm looking for a female who is fun, open minded and can be themselves. Early on in my life I had some amazing older partners who helped me maneuver through the challenges in the lifestyle. I'm my learning experience I served a Domme. The old school way was to understand the psychological impact one has when breaking limits. The theory was you can't be a good Dom until you understood the psychological aspect as a sub. Communications, respect and trust are very important.
I have been in the BDSM community for a while. Years ago the lifestyle was built on respect, trust and communication. The issue is the newer people into the lifestyle don't understand about those things. With the release of 50 Shades of Grey, porn and other movies on fetishes have become more common. Over the last two years the organizations that introduce more fetishes into the lifestyle have focused on more vanilla ones. Like hair color, kissing, chocolate, freckles and oral. They have done this to make it more acceptable for everyone but with the influx of new people has come the lack of understanding of the lifestyle.
To truly understand which fetishes you will enjoy. You must first understand your body and mind need to work in sync. Many people often forget that the mind is a huge piece of of the lifestyle. I can share more with you if you would like.
I'm looking for an open minded, fun woman. Age/experience isn't as important as intelligence, open mindedness, being able to hold a conversation and being able to laugh at things in life.
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