So basically just friends? Yeah but I worded it this way for a reason.

Long story short I grew up without much opportunity to discuss romantic and sexual topics with other people, let alone go on dates and have... you know... sex. So what I am looking for here now is someone who I can chat and be comfortable with who is comfortable discussing sex, kinks, preferences, etc.. Though the sexual stuff should be casual and secondary, in a way. ((If you are also unfamiliar with nsfw topics but want to get comfortable with it, then you are welcome to reach out and chat as well! I'm sure we'll figure it out somehow. Please be at least 18 , ideally 20 .))

An example of what I mean is kinda like this: "So I saw this movie the other day with the actor [NAME] and he -" "God, I want [NAME] to pull my hair." "Oh right, I forgot you have awful taste in guys." "Wow, rude. Like your type is any better." "Uh-huh, right. Well, you should watch the movie. There's a steamy scene in there you might like. Anyways, what I was trying to say was..."That is just an example, but openly, casually, humorously sexual without necessarily delving into sexting or dirty talking is the goal. If I am comfortable enough with you (and you are comfortable enough with me) we could test the waters with more arousing and erotic conversations later, but not right away. I won't pressure you with any kind of expectations, I am committed to being friendly and casual first and foremost.

So let's be friends! Let's chat! Hop right into the conversation like we've already been chatting for an hour. Any topic will be interesting to me if you are passionate about it, so just pour out what's on your mind. Recent obsession? Someone pissed you off at work? Something about yourself you want to share? Killer joke you've been wanting tell? Want to give a ridiculous speech? Your type? A recent movie/book of interest? Life stuff? Lay it on me! To keep topics of conversation available, you'll have to find out my interests and hobbies by striking up a conversation.

If the mystery of it caught your attention, then the plan is already working. And if anything else in this post catch your attention, then feel free to reach out! Chat and messages are both fine. Looking forward to hearing from you soon!

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EDIT: if you just reached out and I declined the chat, that was my mistake, I meant to accept. Don't remember the entirity of you name, but I message 5 people that might've been you? Anyways, sorry.