So. Yea. To start this off, I guess I’ll give the usual. I’m a 30 year old guy from Iowa, looking for… something. I’m 6’1, a bigger guy who is currently on a weight loss journey and already down about 30 pounds. I work, and I’m currently debating going back to school or moving to a management position. I can’t decide. I have long hair, 9 tattoos and counting, and a few piercings. I don’t know if I have a style, I like to be comfortable but I don’t like to stick to anything in particular. I plan on moving in the near future, whether that be across the state or across the country. I love reading, writing, cooking, watching movies, and I’ve gotten back into drawing lately. To be completely honest, I’ve been through a lot the last few years. My trust issues have gone downhill, so please understand that. I may take time to fully trust and be comfortable with you, but I promise you will have my undivided attention once that level has been reached.

To be perfectly honest, like the title suggests, I really do not know what I am looking for. Part of the issues I’ve dealt with the past few years makes me not want to try looking for anything romantic ever again. But, I am a romantic at heart. I want what all my friends and family members have. I want the hand holding, cuddling, watching movies together and always spending time together kind of love. My biggest love types are quality time and touch, I am very affectionate.

I’ve probably written too much for most people at this point, so I’ll quickly get into what I’d be ideally looking for in a partner. Someone preferably mid 20s to mid 30s, I’m not against older or younger if we hit it off but I’m 30 so I personally feel like I’d have the best connection with someone within that range. Obviously if you are younger, be 18. Iowa is preferable, but I am open to anywhere as long as the endgame is to potentially meet in person. I’m even open to international. Someone who is kind, caring and understanding of those around them. I tend to go for the more artistic, outgoing, crystal loving, astrology reading type. Physical appearance, size do not matter. Mutual attraction is a must, we have to find each other pretty, but I want to know you for who you are. I do have styles and body types I prefer, as a lot of people do, but anyone is welcome. Lastly, while I will not get into politics in this post, please know I am very liberal and we will not get along if you aren’t. If I haven’t said too much, and you are interested, please feel free to message me.