I've been thinking about posting one of these for a long time, and decided to go ahead and rip the band aid off. I really crave connection with other geeky women, enbies, or trans women who are geeky/nerdy like me. I know I'm not the only gal who enjoys the things I do in the world!

Some of my current geeky highlights include: - I'm starting to run a new D&D campaign, so I'm crafting treasure tokens, maps, camp supplies, need to finish painting my minis, and plan on modifying my DM/GM screen. - Next month I'm going to a convention where I will try to cosplay and will most likely spend way too much money on art prints. - I'm currently playing Persona 3 Reload, Starfield, and Baldur's Gate 3. In all three I am stuck because I can't decide who to romance because there's so many nice gals. Haha. - I want to play more Vampire the Masquerade, and am going to start learning Pathfinder.

I identify as a sapphic queer. I have moments where I embrace my gender fluid/non-binary feelings, but most of the time I present more feminine. Back when I identified as a lesbian, I considered my personal style as "chapstick" because I'm not super femme and not super butch. I'm that gal who wears nerd shirts and sneakers every day, but I won't leave the house without eyeliner!

While I'm open to building friendship connections with gals, I really do crave a deeper connection with a woman that could be my confidant. I typically am drawn to women who are feminine, or of a "chapstick" variety like myself, but I'm open to talking to more butch gals too.

Currently I'm not able to date in person due to some personal matters. Because this restricts the bonds I can form with others, I'm not going to force people to be exclusive/monogamous with me. All I ask is that we are honesty with each other about this because I want to be ethical in my actions.

I do my best to be kind, understanding, empathetic, and supportive to others. I have a calmer personality but can become really passionate when speaking about something I love. I don't do well with people who have more aggressive personalities, or have anger issues. I prefer to "agree to disagree" on hot topics and move on to a more positive topic.

Here's more about me: - I'm a millennial with some gen x traits. - I consider myself a left leaning centrist. - I enjoy roleplaying and am working on writing a book series. - I am totally food motivated as a person haha. - I'm a proud cat mom. - I watch true crime shows, enjoy action films, and have been watching reality TV lately to validate I'm not a hot mess (haha). - I just got my helix piercing done and plan on getting more tattoos eventually. - I've been into kink before 50 Shades made it popular. - I'm a night owl.

So if I've interested you, feel free to message me and share a bit about yourself. :)

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