Hey, hay. I’m actually afraid of needles, so could you pop up soon?

I’m AFAB, autistic, demisexual, the works. I’m looking for a long-term monogamous relationship with a lovely, understanding man who doesn’t want children (because i absolutely do not). I’m non-religious, left-leaning, and I have three cats. Happy to show them to you if you like. I’m 5’4” and look like this.

I’m a quiet type. I’m pretty introverted and shy. I spend a lot of time in my own head. Not in a smart, pretentious way, unfortunately. I’m just a constant daydreamer.

When I’m not doing that, I’m usually taking care of something. A houseplant (I have too many), a cat (I have too many), the ever-growing pile of dishes in the sink, sometimes even myself. I’m currently disabled and have just started taking the steps to get treatment and assistance finding work. I can cook a decent meal, but I will complain about cooking the entire time I do it. I exercise about three times a week and like going on walks besides that. It’s kind of weird. I’ve never had any muscle before now.

I also like other basic human things. I read. It’s mostly graphic novels and/or fantasy romance. I keep up with Chainsaw Man and K6BD. I spent my childhood reading Stephen King books instead of socializing with other kids. I still have some of his stuff, but I haven’t touched them in a long while.

I also enjoy animated things. I watch cartoons and anime much more often than live action, so there’s a lot of live action shows and movies I haven’t seen. I don’t really have a favorite show or movie. Anchorman is definitely my favorite comedy though.

As far as what I like in a man, I’d say warmth. A warm, openly caring man with a good sense of humor will always have my interest. Confidence is quite attractive to me too. Normal self-confidence, not arrogance. I quite like romantic types, mostly due to being one myself. Quality time is my love language, and I feel really special when people go out of their way to spend time with me regularly. My usual type physically is big, bear-like guys with nice beards.

Some important bits I’m looking for: - 24-30 years old. I’m not interested in anyone outside this range. - living in the US. I’d like it to be as realistic that we meet and someday build a life together as possible. - monogamous.
- childfree. You don’t want or have any children at all. - not a smoker or drug user. - banger communication skills. I don’t do well with hints or indirectness. - patience. Real relationships take time to build. I will want to get to know you well before anything romantic, and I will want to move slowly afterwards. - will not pick on or neg me.

Please give a description of yourself if you message. Age, location, general personality traits, what you’re looking for, hobbies, etc. Enough to get a fuzzy idea of who you are. I will not answer otherwise.