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Hello,
Open to more of a correspondence based chat or including voice chat, grad student here and more nerdy hobby enjoyer. I also exercise if you want to discuss that and goals.
I’ll try to keep it to the point. I have explored a lot over the past few years and I definitely value a connection in anything sexual. But I find it hard to form a personal connection and a sexual connection in the same instance. In my day to day life I am a smart, educated, and driven person, who works with the community and has friends who love and support me. I want to build a nice life and keep one that feels earned, with many hobbies and rich experiences. On the other hand I am a deep and dark pervert. Deep down I love a ton of things and love exploring it with the same energy I do with any other hobby or art form. I can’t really do this in my day to day, I am not around that crowd and I don’t have much time for it with all my activities. I explore it on places like this, trying to learn people’s perversions and discussing dark fantasies and what turns us on and why. I have definitely appreciated the space and experiences but I feel there is so many who turn off their brains just because something is sexual or don’t make efforts to explore me as much as I am exploring them on multiple levels. I want a true friend I can be myself with, both sides. An intellectual, nerd, kind, teasing, comedic, perverse, and dark occasionally. I want to be accepted, wholeheartedly and for someone to really care and not judge while being a confidant and great conversation partner. I know I have talked about myself a lot but I find that important when trying to connect. I want to paint a good picture so you can know if it’s what you want too.
For you I offer the same; acceptance, a genuine friend and non-judgement and someone who puts wholehearted effort into trying to know you and letting you be yourself. I want you to feel that freedom and untethered expression we all crave. I am sure their are many young and driven women with so much talent who restrain their desires or struggle to have outlets for it because of how society is. I will love both parts of you. I want to see a strong and smart woman who also is a total slut underneath it all. You don’t have to be mine, but let’s show eachother what we could be for the right person. If you think I sound like a good match, please reach out. I prefer DMs. I am also a good writer who would be happy to explore scenarios together as a good thought experiment. Sometimes there is no better way to test out a fantasy than with an intelligent partner who can give as good as they get intellectually. Here are some example prompt ideas; Tell me something about yourself you feel others don’t like. I will tell you why it is sexy and lovable. We can talk about scenarios you’ve always wanted or things you’ve wanted to hear and I will happily oblige. This is a space where you can be honest with your desires and ask directly without embarrassment. I can tell you how men would react, or that special someone, or complete strangers. We could even play out a scene where a body part or kink is worshipped. Perhaps you are scared of a certain idea of desire being expressed in a relationship so you hide it. Tell me and we can discuss how it would work and even enhance a relationship where you are valued. Along with all the other things you love. Being a slut doesn’t mean you have to give up your hobbies, or being in a respected position, or having a reputable friend group. I will help you think about how a partner who truly values you would explore with you and help you be a slut in a successful life for the both of you. We could play out a fantasy you have with your work, multiple guys, friends, another girl, whatever you think about. Maybe you have a supportive BF in this context, or maybe it is some crazy scenario you’ve never done before. Maybe I play a robber who forces you, or your owner and you a pet, a historical slave RP, fantasy, scifi, nothing is off limits. Just let me know.
I hope this struck a cord with you. It is a bit late so this may be a bit rambly. If I don’t reach back out immediately don’t worry, I may have had to do something for a bit but I will respond to everyone who answers with effort.
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