Hello to whoever clicked on this post, thank you for doing so :) As you can see from the title, I’m a 22M, athletic/fit guy, looking for a fun but low-pressure relationship with someone who can be a good friend but also enjoy the benefits that come with an FWB dynamic, and yes I really want to be friends unlike some people, as this is a important aspect of the dynamic for me. I want to have some kind of connection, and while it doesn’t need to be high-pressure or serious, mental chemistry is just as important as physical chemistry. As such, I’ve tried to make this post as descriptive and informative as possible so you can get a good idea of who I am and what I am looking for, so there are 6 sections including a mental overview, some of my hobbies, my daily life, a physical description, and sexual information.

Me Mentally

I would like to consider myself interesting, funny, and smart (but you can judge). I would consider myself curious, open-minded, always interested in trying new things, and generally patient and understanding. Politically I consider myself left-leaning and liberal, although I’m registered independent, and while I don’t expect us to have all the same political values, I do expect you to not be racist, transphobic, homophobic, or otherwise bigoted.

My Hobbies

Some of my hobbies include reading, working out, watching shows/youtube/movies, music, fashion, video games, listening to podcasts, learning new things, urban exploration, hiking, photography, and many more. I’m always down to try new things too, especially in good company.

My Daily

I’m currently a full-time student (last year of undergrad) in STEM, and I work online, but I still have enough time to balance a dynamic like this. I got out of a relationship a bit ago, and while I’m very happy with single life at the moment, I do miss the intimacy which I’m hoping I can find and indulge without the high pressure of commitment, so I can focus on school and still have someone fun to hang out with.

Me Physically

Some of my physical attributes are I’m 5’10 tall, I have a fit/athletic build (quite proud of my gym progress and where I am, quite well defined), I have light brown skin, brown eyes, and black hair. Open to sharing pics in private!

Me Sexually

Sexually I lean quite dominant, I love pleasing my partner in whatever form that takes, very open-minded and can find enjoyment in a lot of different things. I’m very open-minded and willing to try new things with good communication (I think I would technically classify as a switch but I lean pretty dominant most of the time). I’m also always open to feedback, as I love improving, learning new things, and stepping up my game to make next time even better. I’m also very kink-friendly and can get down with a lot with a large variety, as long as there is strong communication.

Who I’m Looking For

I’m looking for someone within the age range of 18 to anything above, any race, any size as long as you take care of yourself and are confident, and have something in common with me whether that be lifestyle or hobbies. We don’t have to have everything in common of course, and I love learning about new things so feel free to educate me on something you find unique to yourself. Sex-wise I’m open to exploring and trying things, so the only hard requirement is your ability to communicate, but of course it would be good if we had some basic similarities in this aspect. I would prefer someone close to me, as I’m not looking for anything strictly online at the moment, but otherwise, you can be you so feel free to reach out :)

If this post felt applicable or interesting at all, feel free to reach out, I would love to get to know you! Also if you made it to the end of the post type “KUMQUAT” so I know you read everything. I get so many low effort “hi” and “hey” messages that I always ignore. If you want to tell me about yourself, don’t forget to include your age, location, hobbies, what you have going on in your life, maybe a song you’ve been listening to recently, and a pic if you’re comfortable (totally down to share my own). Anyway, thanks for reading, and have a good day!