Are you someone that feels and experiences things intensely? Do you wear your heart on your sleeve? I'd love to be your calming force. You might have an anxious or hyperactive mind, I tend to be mostly blank, calm and in the moment, like a rock.

I admit, the grass isn't greener on the other side. I mean sometimes I don't take criticism to heart as much as I should, I don't get to be the most imaginative/creative person and often aren't hyper-vigilant enough. Some studies claim people high on neuroticism who have that tendency to dwell on negative feelings actually are likely to live longer, which is kinda crazy.

So let's complement and complete each other. Together we could balance each other out and build a really profound and long lasting relationship.

I imagine some of you who this resonates with so far are diagnosed with mental health conditions like BPD or ADHD and I'd like to make a note that this wouldn't deter me, quite the opposite. I'm pretty obsessed with psychology and figuring out how each person works and if you've been predisposed to examining yourself because of your condition or otherwise, that just makes excited to get to know you even more! (I do of course have some limits and naturally I'm not a therapist)

When I'm not geeking out about the human condition and problem solving things there are some other topics of interest I enjoy which would make for good conversation starters:

• Relationships/Intimacy/deep talks, how are you feeling? What do you feel makes for a "good" relationship?
• Reading, Documentaries, Gaming, I'm not as competitive as I used to be in my teens but I'm always down to enjoy some co-op games or learn stuff together!
• Tech, computers, programming I have a degree in it and been a nerdy hermit since I was a kid, if it's related to tech or on the internet I probably heard of it
• Alt and J-fashion, Cosplay, Anime, I love romantic, cute, goth, elegant coords and gyarus make me melt. What are your tastes?
• Lifestyles, cooking, DIY, meditation, yoga, astrology etc, Recently got into Indian and Asian cuisines and got a wok for Xmas. Got into making my own homemade sodas and extracts from scratch, do you have any eccentric interests?
• Voice acting and Music, I used to be a voice alteration coach and was a sound engineer casually. I challenge you to beat me in amount of voice impressions or accents you can do.

As for any serious relationship, I do have 3 major deal breakers I'll mention really quick:

1) No kids

2) I'm agnostic and not religious and would like to stay open minded. If you're monotheistic, more doctrinal/zealous/traditionalist/perennialist kinda person we wouldn't match.

3) Please no vices like drinking/smoking/drugs/gambling etc.