Because I don't know you. 😉

Hi! My name is Tom, I'm 36 and I'm looking for my person! Searching so far has led to a lot of dead ends and things that weren't for me, but I refuse to give up. I know you're out there and hopefully reading this post, ready to start our journey!

I'm not necessarily in a huge rush, in the sense of I'm not expecting us to hit it off and move in together and be serious in a month. That just sounds crazy. I have some big goals in my life I'm working on, and until those are set the idea of truly settling down sounds scary. However, I AM ready to get to know someone. Hit it off. Get those butterflies going. Hopefully go on dates and feel that excitement. Learn about each other and what makes us tick and become best friends.

About me:

36 years old

6'2"

Fluffy....wouldn't call myself fat, but I'm also definitely not skinny. I'm actively working on losing weight for my health, but currently I'd say I'm more than a dad bod, but far less than fat.

Work in a factory, which has its ups and downs

EXTREMELY excited to be a father someday! I love kids and they seem to love me, and I feel like it's my destiny to help mold the next generation.

Interests: sports, movies, music of all kinds! Traveling, adventures. I'm a pretty good cook and can whip up almost anything if given a recipe or the proper ingredients! I'm a gamer, but far less often as I get older. Family time is important to me. Did I mention sports? Yeah, I may be addicted to sports.

Terrible dad jokes and puns. You will be groaning and rolling your eyes constantly around me, I guarantee it.

You should be:

In your 20s or 30s. I need enough maturity that we'll be a good fit, too old and it obvious throws a wrench into my family plans.

Have and/or want kids

HOPEFULLY located somewhere around the general Ohio/Michigan/Indiana area. I'm in the northwest corner of Ohio, if that helps at all. I'm not opposed to long distance in the least, but long term I'd love to find someone I can see often and be with, so as long as semi regular travel and eventual relocation for someone can be achieved it's ok.

Looks DO NOT MATTER. I'm a demisexual and far more attracted by your personality. I ask that you be kind, sweet, goal oriented. Loyal, willing to work through problems, and willing to take things slow for a bit and get to know each other.

Beyond that I'm really pretty open minded and easy to please! Just a hard working, family oriented goofball looking for his partner in crime adventure who I can hopefully grow old and raise a family with! If any of this sounds like you or something you're interested in, I definitely would love to hear from you! Tell me your biggest goal in life. A good joke. Something you accomplished this year that you're proud of! I'm ready to meet you and start the next part of my journey in life!

Able and willing to share pictures early on, since attraction is important.