YOU

Think of where you are, what you're doing, and how hard you've worked to get here. It wasn't easy was it? You want to continue to chase your dreams. However, you'd really like to do with someone, wouldn't you. Especially, an older, mature, Dominant man who can teach and educate you. To create a friendship with him filled with intelligent debates, laughter, banter, especially teasing.

You're a woman who understands that a genuine relationship is built on trust, honesty, and open communication. It's very important to you that you find a Dominant man who's able to understand that while incorporating it into his leadership style: words > discussion > action.

Yet, you also need this man to know you're not perfect! Yes, despite how you look, talk, or act it's not easy being you is it. No - you're a real person with real problems. You're not looking to be someone's porn star or mom or emotional dump. In the end, you're just a woman who tries her best and wants an older, experienced man who she trusts to cuddle and praise her and tell her what a Good Girl she truly is.

While you're wanting (and secretly craving) to be able to grow and explore sexually with him, you're really looking for a deep emotional connection - so chemistry is a must. You want to be enabled and set free to embrace your femininity and submission in a way that's empowering. You want someone who can create a secret, private bubble of time and space just for the two of you. You know you deserve to be a man's greatest treasure, his Mona Lisa - and you're so very excited to see the timeless masterpiece that he will transform you into.

ME

I know what I want in a good way, that will be attractive to you and yet a little scary. I'm an actual successfully functioning adult. I work in management, can work remotely, and have goals and dreams I'm achieving daily. I believe in integrity as it's a cornerstone of who I am. I'm stable mentally and emotionally, and not argumentative or prone to anger. Good words that people have used to describe me are: hilarious, humble, sarcastic, confident, charming, disciplined, nurturing, and outgoing. Other words you can judge yourself: driven, challenging, detail oriented, firm, and ambitious.

I want something long term that let's me take the time to invest in getting to know you. I'm talking the real you - not the one that's on social media, or you introduce to potential boyfriends on vanilla dates. NO! I want the real you without filters.

I don't care if you work or want to be a submissive housewife, but I do care about you being productive and bringing something positive to the relationship. This is going to be a true partnership, the most intimate of them all. You also need to know that I will care about not only your happiness and contentment, but your pleasure as well - because that's just as important as mine.

US

I'm the type of leader who values your input because you're important to me and you'll also have a beautiful mind that has information that's valuable for US :) I believe in giving clear and consistent goals, while providing support and encouragement on how to reach them. I'm also not looking for a perfect woman, but rather one who's interested in allowing me to help coach, mentor, and teach her. For I find the journey of creating that intimate connection with my submissive to be incredibly meaningful.

A D/s relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality that allows us to both understand clearly the roles we're meant to embrace. I'm a man and Dom you will admire, whose guidance inspires your growth, and whose care will extend to every corner of our lives. Earning the right to be your Dominant is a huge responsibility that I've worked incredibly hard to be ready for. Most importantly, I will cherish and nurture every part of you :)

I want to be very clear: I will care about you mentally, emotionally and physically and learn what you need and want to be truly happy and then make that happen!

What I Will Strive To Do: 1. Provide trusted leadership that respects you and your boundaries so you can let go

1. Give you the structure you need to be able to focus on what matters

2. Work with you to give you the confidence in yourself you deserve

3. Make you stronger physically, mentally, and especially psychologically

4. Help correct you respectfully and lovingly to make you more emotionally intelligent so you're aware of your words and actions

5. Continuously work to provide you a place where you feel safe and secure and can completely be yourself

Us: single, no kids, enjoys being with older/younger partner, brave enough to be vulnerable, ready for commitment, fiscally responsible, able to communicate regularly, willing to travel, not into age play, experienced / interested / curious about power exchange outside the bedroom

KINK

I don't Dominate by bullying or being a dictator. I do so by earning your respect and trust over time and earning the gift of your submission. Then developing that into an intimate connection where you naturally begin to let go and allow me to lead because you value and respect my intelligence, confidence, and thoughtfulness.

I truly enjoy this dynamic and molding, shaping, mentoring, teaching, and especially training a woman to embrace her potential as my submissive. It is something I will truly cherish. You don't want to just feel my Dominance sexually, but NEED to feel it mentally and emotionally as well. This means you WILL feel used, owned, and treasured - sometimes all at once :)

I will motivate you, hold you accountable, and keep you honest and in line. I'll work to create a schedule for you and make you the best person you can be. That way you will know how it feels to submit to a Dominant who has your full trust and devotion and allows you to truly turn my mind off and surrender.

You're comfortable with your body and are ready and excited to explore the wonders it holds. I would consider it a bonus if you are open to me showing you off in certain physically and mentally discreet ways that can display what a masterpiece you're becoming! It's very important to me to reward my submissive in many ways as you deserve to celebrate you being you!

Kinks: Power exchange, praise, structure, tasks, spanking, restraints, free use, BDSM, caring degradation & humiliation, anal, face fucking, threesomes, clothing control, orgasm denial/control, edging, impact play, rewards, time management

So, if you seek a relationship with a Dominant and respectful leader who will work with you to create trust while intertwining power exchange and kink into the most intimate relationship you will ever have, I'd truly enjoy getting to know you. If you're not sure if this is for you, but intrigued please contact me anyway. I will help lead you to find out more about what I wrote and why it affected you in the way that it did.

Please send me a chat and let's see if we vibe, I can promise you'll feel comfortable and safe. Perhaps even move to a voice call so I can make you laugh a lot. Please tell me what you connected with in my post (detail appreciated), the type of relationship you need, and what makes you happy.

Also looking in Portland, San Francisco Bay area, Los Angeles, San Diego, Austin, Dallas, Denver, Nashville, Miami, DMV, DC, New York NYC, Boston, Vancouver, Toronto, etc