It's a bit silly, I know. But I've always been a sucker for silly romantic things. Having sparks shine all around when you kiss a person you're meant to be with also just sounds pretty convenient. I'll settle for some sweet romantic flirting, though.

I'm an AFAB nonbinary person seeking a long-term monogamous relationship. I have three cats and do not want children in any form ever. I am autistic. I’m left-leaning and non-religious. I am demisexual and will not want that sort of activity directed at me unless we form a close bond. This cannot be rushed. I am 5'4" and currently look like this.

I’m really firm because I have to be, but I’m pretty soft and sensitive on the inside. I adore spending quality time with my partner. It makes me feel very cared for and special when people make time for me. I tend to give my all to them in return once they’ve earned my trust and care. I love warmth, sharing a laugh, and the sweetness of nonsexual flirting. I love tight bear hugs and spooning until I kick my partner in my sleep and they get annoyed. I love having a best friend I can also kiss a little. Kinda miss it, I guess.

Hobbies-wise, I take care of way too many houseplants. Especially succulents. You’ll probably be shown them whether you also like plants or not. I like to read fantasy romance novels, graphic novels, and sometimes manga. I’ll play puzzle games until my brain is fried, so I try not to do that too often. I like listening to really long YouTube videos while I cook or clean. Sometimes I go down intense rabbit holes and wind up on the Wikipedia page for insane bus crashes or all the different supercontinents thought to exist. I don’t retain much from these, but they’re fun while they last. I exercise regularly, and I listen to music when I do to stave off boredom. It’s mostly pop, indie, and alt.

So what about you? You’re 24-30. You live in the US, to make it more realistic that we’d build a life together eventually. You’re childfree (no children, no desire to have them) and monogamous. If the thought of having a child fills you with anything but unhappiness/dread, I’m not interested. You don’t smoke or do drugs, and you don’t tend to pick on/neg people you’re trying to date. You’re warm and caring. You’ve got a good sense of humor. Maybe you’ve also got a burly build and a cool beard.

Please give me an intro of yourself if you message. Include your age, location, general personality traits, and hobbies at a minimum. If you don’t do this, I will not respond.