Hi! So I’m looking for what you’d typically consider friends with benefits but I’d be happy if we developed some feelings and affection towards each other as well! I’m also happy to not even discuss sex for a while if you’d prefer and/or to let it develop naturally from a more typical friendship <3 I am in an ENM relationship but we’re not poly so this would be be limited to an affectionate and loving friendship and/or mutual crush at most.

My ideal would be for us to talk online for some time until we find that we’re compatible and like each other and then when convenient and comfortable we could meet up (this can be many months if you’re worried about that part!)

I am bi but lean towards being attracted to fem people. I don’t really have a type in terms of fem people and find so many kinds of people attractive. In terms of guys it’s hard for me to predict. I like femboys and have liked some guys. Regardless I’d be happy to try! Heavily prefer that you’re 21 (and <45 if you’re a guy), hygienic and to be honest I usually find facial hair to be a turn off. It’s not a deal breaker though

I kind of identify as non-binary currently (AMAB) and present mostly masc (try to lean androgynous) but I’m reevaluating thing currently and may decide to transition to being a woman. Still figuring things out but that’s my state rn. I go by she/they and will probably look more feminine over time even if I won’t transition since I’d prefer it. I have long hair, and shave all facial/body hair, 5’11, currently losing weight but kind of an avg body type right now, (stuff I don’t really want to share but I know some people care) avg sized, and uncut.

I’m very emotionally open and try my best to always be truthful. I’m fairly even-tempered, very patient, try hard to be understanding and nonjudgmental. I take some time to comfortably express myself. I love personal conversations about either how we’re feeling, things that are bothering us, things that are important to us or learning about each others past. I play video games and would be happy to play something together. I like anime (the not bad ones at least), horror, music of many kinds, media that makes me sad but has some optimism/hope to it, cute animals, walks/hikes, traveling, philosophy (ethics and politics primarily), programming, self-improvement, running, reading (mostly non-fiction but I do like fiction too), and when I get the chance to help others c:

I can travel occasionally during the year within the US, traveling outside is harder for me but possible, and I’d be happy to have you visit me if that works for you.

Sexually I’m open to lots of kinds of things and kinks but I’m not really into bondage or pain I think. I lean sub but am flexible and am happy with more equal dynamics as well. I am giving and love to learn how to make someone else feel good. I think sex is extremely fun so I’m happy to do it often and for long periods c: but I’m happy with other tempos as well. I am clean and get tested between each new partner. I’m not interested in topping masculine guys. I love foreplay and would be happy with just that if it was your preference <3

If you’re a woman and tall, trans, strong, busty, curvy, squishy, alt, clingy, kind, kinda rude, demanding, older and/or one of many other things I can’t think of rn I really want to hear from you! If you’re a boy and feminine, inexperienced and/or kind please message! NBs in general welcome as well c:

I’m open to lots of kind of kinds of arrangements besides having straughtforward sex 1-1 as well, including people to just generally be kinda sexual or flirty with, stuff with couples and things centered around only specific kinks or kinds of sex. Feel free to message if you have a specific thing in mind on your side <3