So what am I looking for? It's nothing too complicated: Somebody who has the time and space to fit me in their life, and the availability for me to fit them into mine. If you're nearby (relatively speaking) then lets make it our aim to meet and spend time together, see how we click. If you're not close enough for that to be an easy option, then it would be nice if we could talk but also spend time doing other things, be that playing games together, watching movies or documentaries, reading to each other... it's surprising how many ways there are to spend time with a person despite distance between us. I'm potentially happy to travel literally anywhere to meet, if that's how things play out.

Either way, I'm looking for somebody I enjoy spending time with, who likes spending time with me, to spend quite a lot of time with.

As far as what I like physically; I am pansexual and in the past have dated people of almost all races, gender/sex combos and styles/tastes. Though I lean a little more towards people who are soft, small, alternative and androgynous. Feel free to ask more about any of that, if you like, but please don't assume I won't be interested if you don't fit that profile.

A little about me then:

I'm alternative/spooky, spiritual, and curious about a great many things. I can read tarot, enjoy taking long walks at night under the stars, or out in the woods looking for strange and unique things, and am more than a little bit obsessed with the moon and thunderstorms. I read a lot and write a little, when I can muster up enough spite, but would love to develop my skills with other art forms. I enjoy learning all I can about such diverse topics as mycology, astronomy, mythology, psychology and history. I passionately love to listen to people talk about their own interests so I would be happy to learn and explore anything you feel you could teach me, or anything you just love deep down in your grotty little goblin soul and always wanted to share with someone.

I consider myself to be affectionate, calm and empathetic. I can be indulgently romantic when the mood takes me, and people often tell me that I have a soothing voice and presence. I have a few hobbies I enjoy and a much longer list of hobbies I would like to have but haven't gotten around to trying yet. I would like to travel more and visit new places, and as before whether that was with you or to meet you, I don't really mind.

Here's three of me, it'd be nice if you included a photo in your reply if possible. If not that's okay too so long as you're okay with being seen fairly early on. Let's not make this awkward, eh?

Hopefully you like what you've seen so far, and if you've made it this far then first of all, thank you for taking the time. Now, a caveat: I've recently been diagnosed with treatment-resistant, chronic, severe depression. Still trying to work out the ideal treatment and my life is not exactly where I want it to be right now... But the intention is to not make that anybody else's problem. I have a wonderful therapist and don't need another, but I still think it's fair to share that up-front in case you were considering saying hi.

Other things you might like to know:

- Single

- Comfortably monogamous and CIS male

- Employed with own car, living with older parent

- Ambivalent about marriage and having kids. Potentially open to the idea of both, with the right person in the right circumstances, but not exactly desperate to reproduce or tie the knot

- 8 tattoos & 6 piercings, plenty more of both planned for the near future

- 420 & broadly kink-friendly

- Dark, self-deprecating humour

- Awful, terrible tease. It's all out of love and appreciation for your uniqueness, I promise

Anything else, feel free to ask; I'm basically an open book. Message me if any of this seems interesting to you, or if you just like my face...?