Let's start with something simple and relevant to the season. What's your favorite holiday tune? Are you belting out some 'All I want for Christmas is you', or are you a Swiftie and going with one of hers, maybe you like the little more classic songs like 'White Christmas'. I'm a sucker for the older stuff personally 5 points to you if you can guess mine, and I'll tell you its from the 1800s but almost everyone has covered it at some point. I always put up a random question to kick off a conversation, there's no right answer.

I'm looking for someone to chat with and hopefully let it bloom into something more. If that means someone to spend the rest of my life with, then great but I don't expect it to happen overnight.

About me: 41, male, single (no kids, never married), live in South Florida but not stuck here. I work in IT/Sales, but don't consider myself a nerd, more of a people person than that. I am a smartass but always try to think of others before myself, nice guy (but not a NiceGuy), not a huge drinker but I will have a drink or two socially. Fan of sports, music (more bonus points if you can guess what I play, or used to play), the ocassional video game, traveling (last trip was to Texas, but it was a short one), and obviously parenthesse along with the oxford comma.

What I want from you: Man or Woman, 18-??? I'm not picky. Someone who makes me smile, and is honest. None of us is perfect. I don't care if you're a special butterfly or another average person just trying to get through the day. Just be yourself. If you want more than a chat buddy, then I'd say be between 30-40 (soft limits), single (this is a big one, I'm not trying to slide into anyone's DMs behind their partner's back, that's not cool), have an interest or two that you'd like to talk about.