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Recently, I have found that the gap between me and some of my past friends seems to be getting wider and wider, and the feeling of communication has gradually become distant. In front of them, I found that I spoke less and less often, and it seemed that I no longer had the tacit understanding I once had. I have tried to share bits and pieces of my life, such as recent travel experiences or shopping experiences, but I feel like I might be causing trouble to my friends.
This change makes me feel a little incomprehensible. We used to be each other's confidants and shared every aspect of our lives, but now we seem to have become strangers. Perhaps because of different life trajectories, or because each other's interests gradually diverge, the original tacit communication becomes difficult.
In this case, I began to think about how to deal with this change in communication. Maybe I can try to re-establish the bridge of communication and understand each other's current interests and life status. Or, I could consider adjusting the way we communicate so that we no longer touch on topics that may make the other person feel uncomfortable or troubled.
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