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I recently realized that I'm demisexual. People have told me before that they thought I was demisexual, and I wasn't sure I checked all the boxes. Like, I can still feel arousal, and I guess I thought that was the same as desiring physical intimacy at the drop of a hat. But it's not. And after reflecting on that thought...yeah, being demisexual fits. I always thought my lack of sexual experience was a bad thing, like it meant I was physically or mentally defective. And a lot of people will see it that way. Plenty of people don't even believe demisexuals exist. But I'm here. I am what I am. I experience love and desire and sexual intimacy in ways most people don't. It's frustrating, and it's isolating, but to be any other way does me nothing but harm.
Anyway.
Me: 32 M, cis-het, about 5'8", thin. I read, write, exercise, watch too many video essays (Super Eyepatch Wolf, ContraPoints, Philosophy Tube, In Praise of Shadows, I could go on), and generally adult my way through life. I like various anime, comics, and movies. I have a puppy, and he is my world. Leftist atheist, but I'm not militant about the atheism. Monogamous, not sexually active, and no kids.
You: Funny. Kind. Maybe into some stuff that I'm into. I strongly prefer talking to someone geographically close by, but I'm willing to try something long-distance. No cats, because I'm allergic. A pic from you gets a pic from me.
I only use Reddit and Discord to chat with people. To prove you got this far, tell me one of your favorite books or movies.
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