Hi! I’m searching for you. A man who just wants to be my friend first. Don’t rush it. Just take your time. Be truthful and be yourself

Important!! : NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOKUP! (I put the nsfw tag only because I mentioned sex at the bottom of my post!) PLEASE BE NEAR ME!!!

Me: I’m blonde, bubbly and outgoing. I’m left leaning, and I enjoy going for nature walks, yoga, and Pilates. I have to exercise and stretch because I have back and pelvic floor issues. I’m 5’ 1”, 120lbs. ADHD. Herbal tea and coffee. I am NOT a Republican! Tv: varies, I’m all over the place. Love Doris Day and Vincent Price. South Park, real housewives, American dad, Scooby doo. Just anything really.
Music: Lots, - The neighbourhood, Dolly Parton, Jungle, Prince, Hank Williams SR., Fleetwood Mac, Def Leppard. I love talking and I love phone calls! I love cats and looking at cat outfits in target. Shopping is fun, even if you don’t buy anything it’s nice to look.

I have a lot of anxiety regarding many things. I take medication, and attend one on one counseling and group therapy sessions. Walking, journaling, and coloring help me as well. I take cbd and delta 9 edibles.

I play mobile games, not big into gamer guys… just gives me little brother vibes… not sorry :)

You: Successful- I think success is defined by your attitude and the goals you’ve set for yourself and have met. Attractive. Physically in shape. Confident and not cocky. Jealousy and clinginess is unattractive. I don’t babysit grown people. I want someone to be there for me, and to be my rock. Of course mens mental health matters. It’s the gross men who pout and act babyish when they don’t get their way which irritates me. Huge difference. Not pushy.

I know I am attractive, I eat a balanced diet, I exercise, I work on myself. So likewise I’d expect the same. I only got this way through working on myself. Dad bods are fine! Just as long as you try to have a clean diet and like doing any sort of exercise.

What I want out of life: I have been fucked over in the past and it’s hurt, but I’ve learned from those experiences. I’d love to have a real romance. I want to care for someone and I want them to do the same for me. I’d love to have that nice house and picture perfect life in every hallmark movie I watch. A girl can dream. With two incomes combined I want to not have to struggle in life financially. Take me out for a ride in your truck. Let’s go do fun things together.

I laugh with my friends about finding a big hunky country man who isn’t a racist, homophobic, redneck. Challenge:impossible!

Sex: I’m not having sex for a long ass time. If you’re genuine you’ll wait with no frustrations or gaslighting me. Pouting because I won’t sleep with you!? Yuck! MOVE ON!!

I’m NOT celibate !!! When we do get there, there are certain things I like in the bedroom particularly bdsm related.

Trust and honesty is the most important aspect in a relationship. It’s the foundation. Avoiding the facts and lying-I don’t tolerate. The truth always comes to light. In all seriousness I am a fair, and genuine individual. I’ve been stepped on too many times and I know my worth. I just want a good man to be in my life, and I know they’re out there, somewhere.

Again not looking for a hookup and please be near me!! Please send me a message about yourself and what part of the south East region you’re from! Thank you!